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something thats on my mind

Friday, March 08, 2013

Why is it that some friends don't seem to follow through? They ask you if you are interested in something, say they will keep you informed and then never follow up, or if they do - its after you've made other plans. The other thing I hate is when someone gives you a noncommital that they are interested - could go either way - and they never ever respond again, even if you ask them point blank. Drives me crazy.

Now my negative thoughts have been getting me in a bad state - not serious, just minor annoyed. I belong to several groups and just can't figure out what I've done to either piss them off or annoy them. My one friend always gets invited to the extra extra curricular happenings, but I don't seem to get those invites. And when I ask, I'm always told, well you need to contact so and so. Well if you don't know something is going on, how are you supposed to know you have to contact them. oh I get the point now... So I'm looking around to see what else I can do and other groups I can hang around with because I'm tired of all this cliqueish stuff.
Enough complaining - its time for a walk and then maybe more working out and then maybe some serious 16oz lifting emoticon

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COOKIE_AT_51 3/11/2013 6:47AM

    Sounds like you "lassoed" some negative thoughts emoticon ... isn't it funny that cliques continue way past grade school days?
I had the same thing happen with a card group, I think I was being invited because of another girl and not for "me" ... oh well, stopped going to that.

I loved your comment on Annie's page regarding herding us cats ... emoticon so true we are a head strong bunch.

Hope your Monday is a fabulous one! emoticon

Spark on ~ Cookie

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DEBRAK14 3/8/2013 8:48PM

    So sorry you are feeling frustrated. I can't stand it when people don't commit...makes me crazy. Maybe you should let your friend who seems to get all the invites know how you are feeling. Perhaps then they would let you know about things sooner or more often. I think continuing to branch out and make more connections is a great idea. Keep being you, and you will find people who complement your personality and style.

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BARBANNA 3/8/2013 7:18PM

    The good old fashioned values are gone. There was a time your word meant something. There's poor work ethic, lack of respect, no loyality, lack of trustworthiness, no honesty, poor reliability and a different quality of friendship.

Sorry you had to experience this with some of the groups you hang out with. Don't give up as there must be some like you! They are few and far between! emoticon

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