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Fortitude


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Friday, March 08, 2013

Ah, an interesting quality and one in which I am lacking. Fortitude involves the courage to keep trying even when you've filleted your flat and you can't find your mojo.

And when things you can't control get in the way.

Take this week. This week I was planning to start a gym streak. The weather's warmed up a bit, spring is here in a washed out and feeble sort of way, and so far 10 people have mentioned how nice my new dress looks on me (I've put notches on my desk at work. No I haven't but for a minute you thought I had didn't you? I actually have a little tally going on a post-it note. In my head).

Getting back to what I was supposed to be talking about, I have enough stuff to feel motivated about, and then guess what happened at work yesterday morning? I started to go down with a cold.

'Oh what fresh hell is this?' I said to myself, in Dorothy Parker mode.

Felt increasingly grotty, got home, mooched around, went to bed early, slept badly, woke up at 3am with my right nostril stuck to the pillow with . . . sorry that really WOULD be too much information wouldn't it? Bleugh bleugh blah. Drifted back to sleep, woke up at 5.15am, reached for trashy novel, dozed, woke up at 6.45am, reached for Laptop, logged on to see if I've got a new popular blog award and I haven't and if you think I don't care about not getting one you're mistaken, tried reading the Guardian website www.guardian.co.u
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but too much like hard work switched off Laptop and mooched for 15 minutes.

And remembered that the SparkJourney thing is lifelong, it's about what you do every hour of every day, it's not about short-term goals it's about the bigger picture. So no good lying around in bed and saying 'I'm going to go down to Tesco's and buy myself a binge cos I feel lousy and I had plans for today.' There'll be plenty of other days when I don't feel very Sparkly and it's no good using a cold as an excuse to eat junk. There'll always be an excuse to eat junk if you want one and I've been doing a lot of that recently.

So I got up and made healthy low calorie porridge for breakfast and ate two-thirds of it.

Just off to scrape the other third off the inside of the microwave.

Speak soon.
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HAPPLYEVERAFTER 3/9/2013 9:09AM

    Thank you for sharing! Hope you get your blog award!

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JANEMARIE77 3/9/2013 9:06AM

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MONTREAL12 3/9/2013 8:55AM

  Here I thought it was all about motivation; but now realize that it's sticking with the program that I need to tweek! emoticon

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MRCSMITH 3/9/2013 8:50AM

  I recommend drinking lots and lots of water to get rid of a cold quickly. It is something I used to see my father do and believe in. He also took medicinal hot toddy's. chin up and full steam ahead.

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REGILIEH 3/9/2013 8:44AM

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IDICEM 3/9/2013 8:44AM

  I do hope you feel better soon. Thanks for the laugh!

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JOYFUL452003 3/9/2013 8:44AM

    Thanks for sharing! Hope you are feeling better soon!

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ITSMYTYME2SHYNE 3/9/2013 8:36AM

    Momma said there would be days like this..... Hope you feel better emoticon

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TRYINGHARD54 3/9/2013 8:31AM

    I hope you feel better soon. Of course we all know how long a cold can last...which really sucks..... try to have a great day....hugssss

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SMITHMTDEB 3/9/2013 8:28AM

    I hope your writing skills are appreciated at your office! I laughed out loud at this blog! So funny and all so true. We always can find an excuse toneat junk or laze around- that's why we're all on SP! Hope your cold is better soon . Just keep eating that porridge. emoticon

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CEEMAY 3/9/2013 8:27AM

    Great blog! Hope you feel much better very soon. emoticon

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PAULOBRY 3/9/2013 8:24AM

    While I understand your self-examination of fortitude, others measure it my your frequent walk-a-abouts. So, your glass is really MORE than half full in my eyes.

P.S. I am slowly adding the King's english to my southern vocabulary. Cheers!

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IAMWINNING 3/9/2013 8:24AM

    I'm so sorry you have a cold. They're miserable any time of year, but in the Spring (and it IS almost here) colds have a way of making us feel extra miserable. I hope yours leaves quickly.

I'm getting over bronchitis myself, and am still not quite 'there' but am now able to resume exercise. That's a big mental lift.

You have a writing gift, and we are beneficiaries of it. Thank you for posting even though you feel lousy.

If I may say, still waiting to see a pic of your new dress ON you. : )

I hope this weekend is restful and healthful for you, so that by Monday you'll be feeling much better.

I generally cover stuff in the microwave to avoid having a huge mess to clean up. Just a thought. emoticon

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JIBBIE49 3/9/2013 8:01AM

    You're the Star.

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MOMMY445 3/9/2013 8:00AM

    hope you feel better soon!

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COOKIE_AT_51 3/9/2013 7:55AM

    Hope you are feeling better soon ... emoticon

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LAURANCE 3/9/2013 7:39AM

  Thank you for this! I'm now just getting over that same kind of miserable cold that got in the way of All My Plans. I thought I was dying of Terminal Snotty Nose and Permanent Hacking and Coughing, but it looks as if I am going to live.
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PYNETREE 3/9/2013 7:34AM

    Does it make me a "mean girl" if I'm grinning at your blog about suffering a Spring cold? Just really grinning at you blog!

The whole point of these annoying colds, is that they force to be grateful for feeling good when they're gone!

And I find that your quota of Fortitude is really right up to the top! Your "walks", would be a death march for me!

So emoticon And get out and enjoy Spring!

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NELLJONES 3/9/2013 7:30AM

    The more things become habit, the less fortitude they require. It becomes just something you do.

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BRAVELUTE 3/9/2013 7:28AM

    Could I send you a Spirit Stick to cut your notches into?

I believe my body is letting me know it needs some rest when it gives in to the cold beasties. I get some warning signs from it before hand. Something like it telling me to take a nap for a couple of days, or sleeping in, or wanting to, or thinking I should have. Or missing an appointment by falling asleep in the chair sitting straight up.

If I don't give in, I get sick 2-3 days later.

Does it work? Well, I'll knock on that spirit stick first, but I haven't had a cold or flue since 2006.

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JANETRIS 3/9/2013 7:17AM

    You can be sick and make me laugh all at the emoticon emoticon same time! Hope you rally soon friend!

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CHERYLHURT 3/9/2013 7:08AM

  You made me laugh, thanks!

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PENOWOK 3/9/2013 7:01AM

    so sorry you are under the weather...you are still quite funny! Thanks!

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DIANESAV3 3/9/2013 6:59AM

    I hope you feel better soon. Keep it up.

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SANDYCRANE 3/9/2013 6:26AM

    Get well soon. Great blog.

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NCSUE0514 3/9/2013 5:58AM

    A cold can make me feel ill way out of proportion to its ability to threaten my life and limb. As a result, those around me don't offer me the solicitude I feel I so richly deserve. Thus life seems highly unfair. Exploding porridge would have topped it all off for me.

Sincere sympathies from across the pond!!

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SPARKBJOK 3/9/2013 5:54AM

    Get better and keep laughing.

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BESSHAILE 3/9/2013 5:52AM

    A spring cold! What an insult. We must talk to the health fairy about this. Shame on her.

Hope you feel better soon.

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NWLIFESRC 3/9/2013 5:49AM

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SHERYLDS 3/9/2013 5:42AM

    actually....you are always on the new popular blog award list for a lot of us.
You give us a great way of looking at the world.
thank you so much

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LCRUMLEY81 3/9/2013 5:18AM

  get better fast

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CYDNEYLEECH 3/9/2013 4:52AM

    Sorry about your cold. But I sure enjoy reading your blogs, they are always what I need to hear. Thanks

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OLIVIANIGHT 3/9/2013 3:35AM

    Urgh colds are the worst. You feel like complete grot but everyone says "It's only a cold, get over it!"
Well I will definitely not say that! But I will say I hope you get rid of it and feel better soon.

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ANDYLIN90 3/9/2013 3:16AM

    Such a bummer when you don't feel well, BUT, you didn't give in and that deserves a big CONGRATULATIONS! I hope you're feeling well soon. And yes I clicked the I like this blog button.

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LIZALOT 3/9/2013 2:36AM

    Oh dear! I love your sense of humour. Many's the time I've had to scrape porridge off the inside of the microwave. Hope you're feeling better.
Congrats on not giving in! And more congrats on the popular blog award!

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SEEINGCLEARLY53 3/9/2013 1:57AM

    its a process,,feel better!

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EABL81 3/8/2013 11:10PM

    Hope you're cold goes away soon, and you find your mojo again. Hang in there!

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KIPPER15 3/8/2013 10:58PM

    I hate the mornings when you scape the porridge out of the microwave. Hot tea with honey usually helps me on those mornings too. Hope you feel better soon. I have been fortunate enough to have missed out on any colds this winter, even when my hubby has had two. I credit extra vitamin D to this good luck!. emoticon

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JERICHO1991 3/8/2013 10:51PM

    Great reminder, life long. I usually eat better when I have a cold, food does not taste as good when I don't feel well.

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DALID414 3/8/2013 10:29PM

    At least your sense of humor is intact. emoticon

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LIVEDAILY 3/8/2013 9:21PM

    Gracious! I've been fighting a cold all week also and I've tried something new for it. 1 tablespoon of honey and 1/4 teaspoon of cinnamon in 8 oz. boiling water. Stir it up and sip on it. The steam helps to open you up, and the honey and cinnamon have all sorts of wonderful qualities, I don't remember, but it's supposed to help. Oh, and it tastes GOOD. Depending on my mood, I might dribble in a bit of bourbon too, but not much :-) Feel better!

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ALDEBARANIAN 3/8/2013 9:20PM

    Fortitude? Isn't that when you play an etude in a fort?

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TREYONE 3/8/2013 8:16PM

  Thanks for the pep talk !!! emoticon

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JUNEAU2010 3/8/2013 8:15PM

    emoticon feel better!

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PATTYSPENCER 3/8/2013 6:44PM

    Hope you get to feeling better!

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L1ZB3TH354 3/8/2013 6:37PM

    Feel better soon! emoticon

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CINDHOLM 3/8/2013 5:52PM

    Hope you feel better.. Venting does help.. And I hope you got that other third off the microwave. emoticon emoticon

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