I'm unsure of how I feel right this moment.
In the last hour we've discovered 2 family members passed away.
One my MIL's cousin who died last month
the other my husband's second cousin (on his father's side of the family) who died a week ago.
We have not been in touch with ether family for years (not that we didn't try)
but thought at lest family members would have let us know so we could show our respect.
I think mostly I'll just concentrate on how my MIL feels and take care of her, I know this hurt her feelings.