Ok, so for the last few months I have had an issue with a "friend", I dont know if I can really call her a friend anymore... but all this time I thought we were friends, I knew there was alittl tension between us, but I have always been nice to her...but then the last couple months she has really been rude and has been talking about me behind my back and I was told by a couple people that she had told them that they should not be friends with me, one that I have known for almost a year now and the other just recently joined hero house, both telling me the exactly same thing....so I approched her about this and she denied it straight out...she told me that they probably misunderstood...now that would have made sense if it was just one person that told me, but this is two seperate people, both who did not know each other at the time...I just dont see how they can both tell me the exact same things months apart and seprate and both be misquote her....I trust the one woman who I knew for almost a year, she doesnt lie to me and she is a very bright lady, she wouldnt just confuse what was being said....
Now the issue I have is how do I deal with this...I told her what I heard and how I felt about it, and told her I would appriciate her not talking about me like that again, but I dont think she really got it, she just outright denied it and lied about it...I am so confused and feel so hurt that she would treat me like that and make me feel that I am so horrible, atleast making others see me that way,I would never do that to her, infact I have always been nice to her, been there for her so many times...I just dont know what to do now....anyone got any suggestions, what would you do?

Thanks for listening...big warm angel hugs...
Monika