How Many Is Too Many? And What To Do?
Sunday, March 03, 2013
I'm talking about SparkTeams and SparkFriends here, not potato chips - so it really is something I could use a few extra brain cells to help with. I know that your first thought is that this a decision that only I can make; and, of course, that is true. But perhaps some different perspectives will help me work this through.
A month or so ago, I cut back on both my SparkTeams and SparkFriends because I was spending too much time on the computer. But now this spectre has again reared its head. So where do I go from here, and does this problem ever come to an end?
I have only been rarely commenting on blogs or SparkPages. Many days, I hardly even get a chance to back through 24 hours of Friend Feeds and hit "like" a few times. Yet I hate to unfriend someone just because we've had limited interaction when I'm the one not interacting as I'd like.
And then my teams. I feel like I can only be present and participating in 4-6 teams. I'm really committed to Mid-Mo Let's Go! Team. We've grown in both numbers and activity since the first of the year. After I dropped a couple of teams, I got to thinking that maybe that's not the best route. After all, that removes my points from that team. So then I've dropped some of the team goals so there'd be less tracking for me. But that also adversely affects the team stats. So how do other Sparkers manage some 20, 30, 40 teams or more?
I'm trying to do quite a bit more physical activity. So now I'm new to a 5K team that I've figured will only be a 5-week commitment. But then I'll want to start working toward a 10K, and maybe even a half marathon. Is it right to keep joining teams and dropping them? And even though I decided it's too soon to consider myself transitioning to maintenance, I expect to be by summer. So there's another team that needs serious consideration.
All this has puzzled me for awhile. But then I got increasingly baffled, and I'm almost to the point of throwing my hands up in dismay. Is there any help out there from my friends and teammates?