Tuesday, February 26, 2013
Good afternoon; I called two of my best friends that have husbands the same age or older. One of my friends started laughing so hard - I started laughing, too. she says our men are alike. I went through this same issue. We talked for over an hour.
The other frIend - she did not laugh but was quite a comfort. She says your DH is going through a phase - mine did too. I was patient with him and finally he realized that he was quite a fool. My DH is now sending me Txts that he loves me. He is a fool. I am doing good, but I am pissed. Two years ago he felt it was me when our sex life was not going well. He finally found out through a physical that he needed meds. I love him dearly, but he hurt my feelings when he said the things he did. What I do know if I wanted a better sex life, I would have grounds to cheat. I do not believe in that. I just know our life in that area is very different now. When he asks if it was good for you- I say yes, but I lie. I do not have to hurt feelings. Thank you again.