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Thursday, February 21, 2013

Today was a totally crap day. I am very stressed out. My sister is supposed to be getting married in september and now after my mom bought her the $1500 dress and I paid for the $200 Matron of Honor Dress she is unsure now...I kinda want to hurt her.. I have planned so much of the wedding already after I had asked her so many times if she was sure. She has been with the guy for over 10 years and they have a 1 1/2 yr old daughter. But there realtionship is not what I would call a relationship..No trust and no communication. My whole family sees it but not her. I am really stressed out and want to eat everything. ugh...Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.
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KATHYINFL 2/23/2013 12:12AM

  been there done that. One night my sister calls me at midnight crying, she had just found out her fiance had cheated on her. She said she didnt know what to do about the wedding. I told her to call it off but she said said everyone had bought their dresses and she had bought her and already spent so much money on the wedding she just couldn't. Even after I told her we could sell them online. Her other reason well she had cheated on him during the relationship too. Needless to say she went through with it... then had to file for divorce after she caught him cheating again.

Hopefully things work out for the best in your family. And remember this.. sometimes we have to let them make their own mistakes and be there when things dont go as they had planned. ALSO... in this case, it may be easier to sell the dresses at a loss than have to deal with the drama of the divorce later.

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UNFOOLISHTINA 2/21/2013 11:37PM

    wow!

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LWLAR7 2/21/2013 11:37PM

  Don't give up on her

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FENWAYGIRL18 2/21/2013 11:28PM

    Hmmmm this is quite a dilemma I feel for you in this economy no one has disposable money and the time and effort you have put forth to help her plan a wedding can be frustrating.
But it sounds like they honestly shouldn't get married if they have no communication skills and trust issues this sounds like a divorce in the making, she really needs to sit down with someone (therapist maybe) and talk about her feelings and these issues.
What is the point of making it official if you have no trust and no communication?
I understand they have a little one but the child shouldn't be the reason why they tie the knot.
You might be out the money for the dress, but you need to sit her down and tell her to go talk to someone before she does this. Good Luck! Your a good sister! emoticon emoticon

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