Thursday, February 21, 2013
So my husband and I will be split up a year come the end of May. Just does not seem possible that it has been that long. When we split up the only thing that his parents (and him because of his parents) wanted was an apology from me even though it was them that interfered in my marriage. So on 2/5 I gave them what they wanted. I did not apologize for being me but I did apologize for hurting their feelings. The funny thing is they did not tell their son that I had done so. I think it is a case of don't admit then it didn't happen!!! When we were together they couldn't wait to announce that both of their ex-daughters-in-law had sent cards for Christmas, birthdays etc. but they will not admit to him that I sent something!
There are two points to this blog. One being that the people that claim they are so loving, gracious, and forgiving have not acknowledged me in any way whether to their son or to me myself. Whats with that???? And the second is that I have basically set myself free. I know that I have done the right thing and it is up to them to do the right thing in return if in fact they are the loving, gracious, forgiving people they claim to be. I now laugh at things he says to me instead of crying. And until I do hear from them I know that my original opinion of them stands. And that is that they are controlling, manipulative people that only care about themselves and what they want.
On to the next chapter of my life!!!!!!!!!