I am a new great grandmother . again . they had their first child . they are flying above the clouds . On the other hand my daughter is not . she is feeling very badly . Her daughter was arrested for drugs . picked up and jailed for a short time . now she has a fine to pay . they did not offer help . this was her first arrest . the fine is $700. she is not working . I think she is going to have trouble getting this amount together . her car broke down . it sits broken . Her boyfriend drove the wheels off it and when it broke they expected it be repaired .the cost would exceed the worth of the car . needs much repair . shocks and transmission much more . we are not doing the repairs . I would love to see her drug free but do not know how to cope with this anymore . I know she feels grandpa and i have abounded her . she moved out of her moms home . do not talk to her and when she calls she doesnt speak to me she asks to speak to grandpa . I put him on phone and he in turn talks and says sorry i can not help you or answers the question she asks . I have reached the end of my rope at to what to do but i know she has to do this her self .