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If you are loved on Valentine's Day you have the world by the tail!

Thursday, February 14, 2013

emoticon Valentine's Day...what a special, special day! If you are loved you are special! That doesn't mean you have to be loved by someone else...self love is actually the BEST kind of love we can ever savor!

It means that we have settled into our own skin, and have accepted our flaws and feel happy with the total package. Believe me...self love IS the best love!

We were put on this earth for a good reason, and I think that reason is to find and love our own true selves. Yep...warts and all.

Because it's only when you can feel comfortable within yourself that you are able to open up and expand to the love of another.

True THAT! emoticon emoticon Right? Of course it's right. emoticon

So I'm telling you if on Valentine's Day you might be feeling a little in a funk because you don't have a significant other...I'm telling that YOU do have a significant other... of COURSE you do...just go take a gander in the mirror! emoticon And then...LOVE the ONE you're with! emoticon

If you are lucky enough to have found someone who is so special that they accept you when you are a little grumpy, or they love you in spite of the fact that you look like HECK without make up..or a little fluffy when you used to be a show stopper... then you are truly, truly blessed!

I'm blessed in the most marvelous way! When I got home from work tonight what did I find on our kitchen counter?

Woo hoo...he remembered. AND I'm SO glad I didn't carp at him about not giving me a card first thing this morning. I'm usually the impatient type. I held my tongue knowing how crazy busy we've been at the consignment gallery...and really WHAT could I say when I dropped the ball and didn't get HIM a Valentine's Day card...something I'm usually very diligent about.

YIkes...that's NOT cool! emoticon

So when I sheepishly told him how beautiful his card was and how appreciated the roses were and how I was SO looking forward to a nice Valentine's Dinner out tonight with friends I felt like a derp~ for not getting him a card!

What did he's no big deal to me, I know you love me more than you love your beads!

HA...that beautiful guy DOES have a sense of humor! Am I blessed or WHAT?

It doesn't hurt that he's CUTE too! He's sporting his new specs here from last weekend's dinner group outing.

Soooo I'm telling matter how poop filled my life may be if we lose this's nothing in the scheme of things. If you have someone that you love...and someone who loves you have everything the universe could EVER serve up!

If you are looking for that special someone, conjure them up in your mind...every last detail to what color of eyes, what color of hair, what height, what characteristics and then let yourself envision you and them...happy together.

The universe brings you what your heart most desires...but it must be open and receptive and appreciative for what you now have.

Like I always say...Your FOCUS is your reality. If you focus on scarcity...then scarcity you will achieve, if you focus on love and what you need to contribute to a relationship than love you shall have! Easy peasy...right?

So on this beautiful rainy Valentine's Day here in Florida...I'm wishing you darling sparkling friends...big and fabulous and sloppy and complicated...LOVE! emoticon emoticon emoticon It's OUT go forth and FIND it!

A wedding we attended this summer with Jason, a fantastic employee of ours when we had the big construction biz. This is a guy that said he'd NEVER, EVER, EVER find the right happened in spite of himself! emoticon emoticon I said...there's some emoticon one for every's just YOUR job to find them!

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
MKACILLAS 2/21/2013 8:58PM

    Sweet blog! emoticon

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 2/16/2013 9:12PM

    Great blog!

We are both very fortunate to be very loved!

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KERRYG155 2/15/2013 7:55PM

    What a beautiful blog. emoticon

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BARBARAROSE54 2/15/2013 6:39AM


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ANGELCOWBOY1 2/15/2013 6:03AM

    Awesome emoticon

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EJOY-EVELYN 2/15/2013 2:16AM

    So beautiful . . . as you are such a beautiful couple. Love the sparkle in your eye that comes through your writing. Looking forward to arriving in your neck of the woods on Sunday night. Hug, hug -- Evelyn

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MIRAGE727 2/14/2013 11:39PM

    Yep, we're blessed! Happy Valentine's day, Bobbie!

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GOING-STRONG 2/14/2013 10:14PM

    So sweet! Beautiful blog and your DH did real good!


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CANDOK1260 2/14/2013 8:27PM

    congrat on a great blog and a great lovr

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MSLZZY 2/14/2013 8:04PM

    I know I found him but I also found YOU! Hugs!

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JULIACOLLINS62 2/14/2013 6:56PM

    How wonderfully uplifting. Enjoy!

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KATRINAKAT23 2/14/2013 6:25PM

  Happy Valentine's Day. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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LAC936 2/14/2013 6:20PM

    Happy Valentine's Day. I received a bottle of my favorite perfume, beautiful card and silver key ring (no car though ... drats - LOL). We were going to go out to dinner, but I have bronchitis and thought we'd wait until maybe the weekend when I can enjoy it more.


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DS9KIE 2/14/2013 5:44PM


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HOLLYM48 2/14/2013 5:37PM

    I found mine years ago and we are still best friends after all these years!
Have a very special and love filled Valentine's Day!

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MS.ELENI 2/14/2013 5:29PM

    I found one and he is the best. emoticon emoticon

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MPARKER67 2/14/2013 5:29PM

    Happy Valentine's Day emoticon

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