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****REWIND: My Goodbye Letter*****


Wednesday, February 13, 2013

In order for me to continue to grow and keep sight of my accomplishments, I decided to re-read the blogs I wrote from my first go around with Spark. I will be revisiting these blogs over the next couple weeks in order to reignite my spark.

***Taken from my Nov 30, 2010 blog***

Damn you size 20 pants, I want you out!! You did nothing but cheat me for over 7 years and I am tired of it! I deserve so much better and I wouldn't get it if I stayed with you. I outgrew you several times, teetering off with the 22's, played hanky panky with the 18's ocassionally but I always came back to you. Now I stare at you at the top of my closet, ready to throw you out. But I'm scared. I know if I let you go this time, you are not coming back and I don't know how to live without you. I know I can, but do I really want to? OF COURSE I DO! You kept me from my full potential. People thought we looked good together, that I carried you well but I remember what life was like before you. I was so much more confident. I smiled brighter. I had a spring in my step and a switch in my walk. Once we got together, I walked a little slower, I hung my head a little lower. No one got to see my dimples or the light in my eyes. I didn't feel sexy. I wore you to bed every night but I didn't sleep easy. It's like this whole time together has been one big blur and I missed out on so much.

It's over. I never want to see you again. I am sure I will run into you again since you and size 18 tend to hang out. But I've been flirting with size 16 lately and though we are not in a committed relationship right now, I am certain we will get there one day soon. And honestly, I don't know how long the two of us will last because I am done settling. Who knows? I may meet the perfect size 10 one day that will make me happy. But I can't do that with you hanging around. As long as I know you are available, I will always have the urge to run back. Because let's be honest, we are comfortable with each other. And you were good to me at times. When I ran off with the 22's, you welcomed me right back home. You didn't even make me feel guilty. Perhaps you've outgrown ME. I am sure there are women out there dying to have a chance with you. You do have good qualities, I just think I can do better. Though I love you for all we have been through, I am no longer IN love so its best we part ways now. Goodbye size 20.

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READY4CHANGE81 2/16/2013 3:14AM

    emoticon LOVED IT!!!

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BMCKEOW1 2/14/2013 11:46AM

    I love this blog. It's great. Awesome idea revisiting some of your old blogs.

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SUGAR0814 2/14/2013 11:14AM

    Love it Nikki! Great blog!

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MERRY_XMAS 2/14/2013 6:50AM

    Look how far you've come... Seeing where you were, always helps you to move forward and understand your journey.

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CAROLYN0107 2/14/2013 4:29AM

    emoticon Congratulations on your progress!

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MJREIMERS 2/13/2013 10:35PM

    Great way to refocus! New mindset and a new path! Keep it up! I'm so proud of you!!!!! emoticon

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DONNA5281 2/13/2013 5:21PM

  emoticon blog/letter!!

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WORLDSERIES11 2/13/2013 5:07PM

    Love it!! Said good-bye to my size 20's too, but have been stuck with 18's for far too long...need to get moving out and moving on from them too!!

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RORYLYONS 2/13/2013 4:58PM

    I truly love your letter...... emoticon emoticon emoticon

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ALICIALYNNE 2/13/2013 4:56PM

    Love it!


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