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Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Our wards (LMAO) this would b grumpy (my father) and La (granddaughter).

Today was one of those days with both of them. It doesn't helpt hat its TTOM; so emotions are over. So after La went to school went back to sleep.

La for the most part has settled into out new lives relocated 525 miles from everything we know. The main exception to this is school. She feels that she doesnt fit in. She even started cutting her hair so we had to try to even it out; since her hair got cut she has had more problems in school. She been called fuzzy and furry. Today somebody took her pencils and she snapped on the boy. When the boy wouldn't give her back the pencil - she choked him & he stabbed. What a great way to start my day.

Grumpy well he just @*%&#@##%^%* He is worse then a little kid lately. I am @ the point that I am seriously weighing the option of putting him in a home. Which is ridiculous. Because when he isnt being lazy he can do so much more then he use to. He just get so lazy especially about his personal hygiene (including using the bathroom). Its jsut so frustrating and it is @ the point its effecting so much in the house.

I m not mentally stable to begin with. Then with losing weight and yet again trying to change my eating habits. Its all just getting to me. Our wards are totally frustrating not just me but hubby. But its life and it goes on.
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HEALTHY4ME 2/20/2013 5:32PM

    My dad is living in our basement, he still drives, can cook and do some shopping but hasn't had a shower since Aug before he moved here. He moaned and complained about what he needed when he moved here, so we renovated our basment, and added a shower 48inch one not a small square one and he has a new shower chair and he didnt like the shower hose so got a diff one... and he has yet to use it. Oh I am too tired, I have to go out for my coffee first, okay I will come down and be here after so you will feel safe, ( I worked in nursing homes ) oh I am too tired. OMG DAD.
I can't imagine having my grandson who is 3 here too. since this is my first visit I don't know the situation but HUGS!!!!!

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DAISY443 2/13/2013 3:32PM

    I can't imagine how difficult this must be for you having both ends of the age group to contend with. Is it possible to get a home health aid for Grumpy once in a while to help him with his hygiene and general care? Hang in there!

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BEEJAY49 2/13/2013 4:50AM

    I'm so sorry you're having so many problems with your "wards". I know it's not easy taking care of others and trying to take care of yourself too. The elderly and the young can really try a persons patience at times. You are in my prayers! HUGS!

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LAURA1970 2/12/2013 11:03PM

    Wait! How old is she??? Isn't she just 4 years old?? That is too funny!

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LITTLE_QUEEN 2/12/2013 10:48PM

    emoticon WELL TRUST ME I HAVE BEEN THROUGH QUIT A BIT WITH MY DAUGHTER, I IMAGINE IT IS HARD FOR LA AND IT IS TO BAD SHE HAS TO GO THROUGH THAT

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