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The Gift Of Goodbye....

Monday, February 11, 2013

Whether it's goodbye to a relationship, friendship,or the relationship with yourself, sometimes the changes you make for your growth means some may NOT cheer them. They want you to be who you were before. The always yes, no problem...Don't show me up. Make no mistake, you will hear You're too thin, you're working out too much....Sound familiar??? On my journey to my ideal size and weight I heard this MANY, MANY times. What kept me going was my vision..I knew what I wanted ,who I wanted to become . Even my Ex said he never saw me stick with it for so long.


Truth:There will be people who do not like the changes you are making. the choice is do you be true to who you REALLY are, or pretend?

Sometimes the best gift is the gift of goodbye...
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1BEACHWALKER 2/13/2013 3:44PM

    I totally agree! Have done that in so many ways-even with some family members who were toxic to me! We all have to do what we need to do to get to our place of good health whether physically or mentally! emoticon emoticon

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KING_SLAYER 2/12/2013 8:28PM

    Very true. A lot of people want you to stay the same, either because they want you to be miserable like them or because they like feeling better than you. Either way, it's time to say good bye and move on up!

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RKJONES1953 2/12/2013 6:21PM

    Truth:There will be people who do not like the changes you are making. the choice is do you be true to who you REALLY are, or pretend?

Sometimes the best gift is the gift of goodbye...

Never BEG people to stay against their will, sometimes the gift of
GOODBYE opens up another DOOR for YOU. MOVE ON, WALK out your history
and CREATE the next chapter in your life emoticon

The world is waiting

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CLPURNELL 2/12/2013 5:49PM

    You are very very right!

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MNNICE 2/12/2013 1:48PM

    As I once advised someone close to me, "A bad relationship is NOT better than no relationship at all!" Easier said than done ....

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AGK3112 2/12/2013 8:59AM

    well said. I know exactly what you are coming with. I also believe that 3 in 5 people go thru this every single day just like we are

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PATTYKLAVER 2/12/2013 8:17AM

    I hear you on this one. Thanks for putting it so well. If only others could see our vision.

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GOODGETNBETR 2/11/2013 11:42PM

    Oftentimes one goodbye simply makes room for a brand new hello. We must be disciplined and remain strong in those times in between.

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GRANNY2B2 2/11/2013 11:05PM

    emoticon

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WINDSONG26 2/11/2013 10:08PM

    Wonderfully said. Thank you so much for sharing this. It's definitely something to think about

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KELLIEBEAN 2/11/2013 9:02PM

    Well said. It takes a lot of strength to end a negative relationship!

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JOYINKY 2/11/2013 8:46PM

    emoticon Well said!

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MERRYMARY42 2/11/2013 8:35PM

    you hit the nail on the head with that blog, good going, and it is true

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SLENDERELLA61 2/11/2013 8:08PM

    Very profound blog! There were a lot of things I had to say goodbye to. You are right! -Marsha

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STEVIEBEE569 2/11/2013 8:04PM

    Absolutely! Sometimes, we will have to deal with the haters, but at least we can say good-bye to them as well! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!



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SWORVOSKI 2/11/2013 7:57PM

    I really enjoy your blog I had to say goodbye to my family to become a better person, it is very bittersweet for me; but I had to save myself like you did.
Thank You. emoticon

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