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Be careful what you wish for!

Sunday, February 10, 2013

Anyone remember that last month my DH nagged me into sending a letter to a possible address I had found for a girl we were in the Army with in Germany. I have been searching for her for years because I really wanted to tell her how much I appreciated all of the support she gave me when my husband left me many, many years ago. Finding women is TOUGH cuz they change their last name! It took a miracle but I was reasonably sure that I had the right person when I sent off the letter.

Yesterday she called me!!! I couldn't take the call at work and so the game of voice mail tag began! Today we finally connected on our 4th try and it was good ... so much time has passed and yet it's just like we have never had a break! She is by far one of the sweetest people I've ever met ... appears she still is! My DH and I both talked to her and, bless his heart, my DH spilled everything single thing I would have glossed over ... with glee. Like the fact I was nervous to call her back and I was worried that she might never contact me ... *head shaking*! At one point I came in the kitchen and gave him the sign for karate chop across the throat which meant STOP TELLING HER STUFF! He was embarrassing me ... but in a good way. He's such a wonderful husband!

In catching up with what's been going on in our lives in the last 22 years since we've talked I found out that she is a life style coach/consultant. I told her a little bit about my plan of attack for trying to get my stress management teaching off the ground and she was all in ... She was talking so over my head that I'm not even sure what all she said we could do to make it happen. This woman is used to marketing product and people and she is very passionate about it. I hung up thinking "Wow, amazing timing!". I have everything constructed and ready but haven't sent it anywhere. Now I have someone who is excited about helping me make it happen.

Life is certainly unexpected ... and old friendships are just like a conversation that you can pick right up in the middle and go on ....

I still can't believe it .... Wow, I'm blessed!

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
SKYLANAE 2/14/2013 10:46PM

    I'm glad for you too! (Smile)

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SHARON10002 2/12/2013 9:35PM

    That's super, Eda! How wonderful! I'm so very happy for you! Should be easy to keep in touch from now on with today's technology.

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ONEKIDSMOM 2/11/2013 6:46AM

    Once again proving that all things happen for a reason. Good luck and congrats on a boost down the path! As Spark isn't all about weight... it's about goals. Spark on!

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MILLERGIRL719 2/11/2013 6:30AM

    How awesome and exciting. Amazing how and when people enter or re-enter our lives! Good for you for working so hard to reconnect with an old friend!

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LYNETTEMOM 2/11/2013 1:36AM

    that is fabulous. On so many fronts, your reunion is a blessing. emoticon
Happy for you!

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LESLIESENIOR 2/10/2013 11:28PM

    You have led your life in an inspired way so that you are open and ready for the blessings when they are placed upon your heart. What a wonderful story of reunion and friendship.
Thank you for reminding me to live with integrity and passion and a giving spirit. Anything is possible. You are proof of that!
Hug, Eda!

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MARY1313 2/10/2013 11:27PM

    that is so great! It is hard to find women. and a span of 22 years. wow! Good luck with your business!


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    Very neat! Glad you actually found this person!

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