A personal note
Friday, February 08, 2013
I don't know how to go about this...this is a personal situation.....
Ok well my boyfriend of almost 2 1/2 years (we do live together, and the house we live in, an elderly friend of his owns it) and I were talking last night. He's never been married, has been engaged before. He is very loyal to the family friend that we live with and I'm trying to improve my financial situation so I can get my own place (because of the condition of the house, it's not safe really for my two children to come over and visit- so I make a trip out to their grandparents' house- my former in-laws- every other weekend). We've been trying to come up with solutions and due to some circumstances I can't go into, I am unable to move to the county my children live in. My SO and I were talking and my finances ARE improving, PTL, and he mentioned about when my finances are at the point where I can get my own apartment, he will come visit me, however, he doesn't feel like he can leave "C" (the elderly friend we live with). If he can't leave, how will we EVER move forward in our relationship (and yes, I'm talking the eventual "M" word). Am I over-reacting, or being impatient? The elderly gentleman is 75 years old and is in poor health.