How many times have I been at this exact place--unhappy, overweight (obese technically when you look at BMI), knowing I need to change and feeling the sting of self-inflicted failure. So frustrating and so depressing. I try to figure out every day what is wrong with me. People all around me losing weight and I just go through my day afraid to even try because I know I will fail again. How do I get rid of that single fear--FAILURE? I am working to figure this one out. It's not an easy thing. Hoping that this is the time I succeed.