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Men just don't understand!

Wednesday, February 06, 2013

So this morning my daughter is getting ready for school and throws on some yoga pants and a t-shirt and my husband makes a big deal saying she looks sloppy! So I ask don't u ever just want to be lazy and not dress up. He continues to tell me how I dress sloppy every day and how I never worry about how I look! I do dress in sweatpants and sweatshirts everyday because nothing I have fits me anymore and I refuse to by fat clothes! He tells me that I do have nice clothes to wear but I just let myself get to big to wear them! I told him it hurt my feelings but he said he doesn't know why because he didn't say I was fat or anything! Why don't men get it? Here lately he is constantly making remarks about my weight and then offers me a candy bar what sense does that make? So I'm just having one of those days! I needed to vent! I wish I could just wake up one day and be skinny but its just not that easy and I know this!
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    emoticon I don't care who you are. Please think before you speak. People have feelings. We were created with feelings.. Helllllloooo!!!!

    You cannot retrack it after it is said. I hope you have a wonderful productive day inspite of what your husband don't understand and how much he hurt your feelings.

    Be Encouraged and it is going to take time to get to your healthy weight. emoticon emoticon
    1713 days ago
    Stay the course. I don't think they necessarily mean to, but yes they can be butts. You will encounter many ppl like that. Some ppl that will not want you to be successful because they know that they can't do the same.

    Be strong. emoticon

    Thanks for sharing!

    Smile and Enjoy the Rest of Your Day!
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    1713 days ago
  • KA_JUN
    Focus on the long term goal, your personal health and fitness, you are worth the effort you put forth to achieve your goals! emoticon
    1713 days ago
    Get your tears out the way. Then start focusing on all the positive reasons you want to improve yourself. Let those comments from your husband be the fuel to your success. Turn those into positive. When I hear something negative. I put all those negatives into a heck of a workout. I love to show people what a big girl can do in the gym. One step at a time and with each step your grow stronger. emoticon emoticon
    1713 days ago
    Keep focused for success. You can do it. Go for it.
    1713 days ago
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