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Who Can You Inspire Today?

Monday, February 04, 2013

The truth of humanity, and how we are all just here in this life trying to make it the best that we can, has been on my mind lately. How fragile life is, how painful it can be, how we are all really the same deep down. And also how beautiful it is, how marvelous it can be, and how love is truly what we are all seeking. Love, acceptance, joy, peace. Happiness.

And yet life can be really hard. It can hurt us and make us curl into a ball and cry our eyes out. It can pull the rug right out from under us and drop us to the floor. That is what being human is (and it ain’t easy!!!)- it’s all a mixture of emotions. Sometimes you will feel open, and amazed and delighted, and other times you will feel closed, hurt and disappointed. And sometimes you will feel all of these at once, because happiness and sadness are not mutually exclusive. Welcome to the complexity of being alive.

Being open and trying to be authentic about our challenges in a medium where we COULD be anyone and present ourselves anyway our imagination takes us is sometimes ?able. It definitely opens us up to being hurt in our vulnerability. To being ?‘d (Is she ferreal?!*) I hope that it helps others to be more open and honest and accepting of who we all are flaws and all because NO ONE IS PERFECT on this earth. The more we are each real and open with each other the more we can expand into who we were meant to be. Allowing our humanity show through and letting the masks and labels down helps others see us for who we really are and allows them to open up and be real and walk our parallel journeys more openly and honestly without artifice and it’s just so much more well REAL and refreshing than playing games and dancing around don’t you think?

I love sharing my journey and being open. My story isn’t very exciting but I have lots of them. I don’t have it all figured out. I don’t know all the answers. I have a lot of silly mantras and trite sayings but I believe in the things that I say and that TOGETHER WE CAN. A friend here just said something about me being a missionary for Spark or maybe the BLC and you know, I’m not an Indy Girl or a Matt or San Diego John but you know what Shannon; yes, I am a “missionary” for the BLC because I love it just that much and I love and honor the women who have given so much of themselves to grow it into the powerful challenge that it is. Thank you ADMIN and all of the Captains and Co-Captains that give of their time so selflessly to make this HUGE challenge so successful in Sparkland. While I understand that it isn’t for everyone, I do get a little sad when people don’t take the CHALLENGE (it’s called a challenge for a reason) more seriously because it means they aren’t taking their journey seriously either.
By sharing and caring and giving back, I am showing others that it’s ok to not be “perfect” (which doesn’t even exist). Sometimes it’s a reminder that we’re all human and struggling in our own ways, and we are all in it together. Sometimes it’s someone to be vulnerable and share her (or his) pain so that another person doesn’t feel so alone.

I encourage you, as you go throughout your day, to remember this. Remember how we all laugh, we all smile, we all cry, and we all hurt. The woman who smiled at you in the grocery store might have spent the night screaming into her pillow. The man who you cut off in traffic because you are in a hurry might have just lost his wife. We never know. So extend kindness, love, a listening ear, or share a challenge of your own with someone. You may just help another human to accept and love him/herself just a bit more. Remember that deep down, we are all the same. Who can you inspire today?
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  • EILEA73
    I just want to say I really enjoy your posts, blogs, are always so kind, caring, and just "there" for anyone that needs you--even when you have your own "life" going on. I am so grateful and happy that we met on BLC last have inspired me (and many others, I'm sure) in more ways than you know....and you continue are truly one of the most amazing women I have ever met!

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    1715 days ago
    Beautiful words. You have the gift of knowing how to speak right to people's hearts to give them what they need, when they need it. emoticon
    1716 days ago
  • PRIZM96
    Mama Kal, you made me cry....... but that's perfectly acceptable.

    Thank you.
    1717 days ago
    i lovr blc as well . emoticon and emoticon for inspiring me always.
    1717 days ago
    Awesome blog! I love how she describes you as the missionary of spark..what a true statement! I agree with you on BLC. I feel so sad when members drop out or don't push themselves to their full potential. I am guilty of this lately myself. Since starting this challenge 6 rounds's been a constant part of my journey. The accountability it provides to some may be overwhelming but for is exactly what I need! You are truly an inspiration Mama Kal! LYG!!
    1718 days ago
    What a wonderful blog! We have to be US because there's nobody else to do the job!

    HUGS and here's to being US!
    1718 days ago
  • MJRVIC2000
    We were created to be ourselves and not something that we are not. That is a challenge in of itself. I'm happy with whom God created in me and I give Him all the glory! God Bless YOU! Vic.
    1718 days ago
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