Friday, February 01, 2013
Hello my fellow Sparkers,
I recently discovered the joy of the "Hart of Dixie" and have a bit of a cougar crush on Wade. Actually, I love all the characters and all their flaws. In season 2, episode 3 - "If it makes you happy", what Wade delivers a spiel about happiness really hit home for me. In ONE MINUTE, he says volumes. To the writer of Wade's character, I can only say WOW and THANKS!
I am GUILTY of "always looking over your (my) shoulder wondering what life should be, instead of taking it for what it is" and thereby wasting the PRESENT analyzing the past.
And, my life "doesn't match up with the picture in your (my) head about what your (my) life should be" aka who I AM is not who I think I should be and/or want to be. Waa, waa, waa....poor me? NOT. Who I am I have chosen to be through the CHOICES I've made. My CHOICES make me who I am.
"You wanna be happy doc (insert Julie), CHANGE YOUR LIFE or CHANGE YOUR PICTURE."
"Be HONEST about what makes you HAPPY", because "Who doesn't wanna be happy?"
Stop beating myself up about the choices I've made, but resolve to make BETTER choices. I can only aspire to be the BEST version of me.
Here's a youtube link with the "happiness spiel" I'm talkin' about (2:35) ~
Enjoy and be SPARKTACULAR one CHOICE at a time!