February is a month marked for it's romantic holiday full of cards, gifts and tokens of intimate love. What is one to do if they are recently out of a romantic/dramatic relationship, perhaps due to recent divorce, seperation or death of their life partner?
Well friends, I'll tell you what I am doing!
I have marked the month of February for 28 days of unabashed, shameless acts of being "Madly In Love With Me". I've renewed my committment to loving myself even more each day and celebrating me more than ever.
The law of attraction demands that like attract like. Thus, the deep, abiding love that I have for myself cleared the space that was being occupied by the "imitation love" relationship I was in. Now, the deepest, tenderest spaces of my life, heart, mind and soul are clear and expanding every moment so my true life partner and I will be able to find each other.
Loving myself best means I promise to give MYSELF the love I deserve every single moment for the rest of my life and the miraculous side-effect of that is that I cannot help but become more love for the world and therefore my beloved.
What tokens of affection do you long for that make you feel special?
I've listed mine and I am going to do every one of them EXTRA in this wonderful month of celebration! Whewww, I'm excited.
Take myself on a date to the movies (I really want to see World War Z!)
Take myself on a date to the museum of African Art
Write my soul a letter and mail it to myself
Take myself to NYC for a show
Take myself to visit the Frederic Douglass House
Leave myself little love notes in my back pack
Put rose petals and lavender on my bed
Tell myself how beautiful I am
Volunteer time mentoring young women
Tell myself how grateful I am for always being there for me
Buy myself sexy lingerie to celebrate getting fit and lean and have it gift wrapped
Leave myself loving voice mails
Take myself and my grand-daughter to Pump It Up!!
Volunteer time to read to the elderly
Praise myself for meeting my fitness goals
Splurge on a luxurious new Gratitude Journal and have it gift wrapped
Enroll myself in a educational course/class/conference
Write myself a list of what I appreciate about me
Write myself love letters and mail them to myself
Remind myself that I am supported by the universe for choosing love instead of fear