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****too much DRAMA for yo MAMA****

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

My fam is beefin' on Facebook! Who does that?? I mean they are acting like Crips and Bloods! Put your bandanas down! Basically, my cousin got married last summer. My other cousin was one of her bridesmaids. Now I was with them a lot leading up to the wedding and everything SEEMED kosher. My one cousin had helped with the bridal shower, bacholorette party. They were were hugging and smiling and sharing memories from their childhood (their parents are brothers and sisters). Come wedding day, my cousin is nowhere to be seen. Not only is she not a bridesmaid, she isnt even at the wedding. I don't know what happened and everyone is all hush (do you know how much she spend on a dress and shoes???). So half of us live in OMaha and the other half of the cousins live in Phoenix. This morning, my phone keeps blinking - my FB alerts. I get on FB and what do I see? My cousin the bride (did I mention she is 35 yrs old?) makes a post about "people" being undeserving of her love when all she was trying to do was look out for other "people's" children and family and yada yada yada and then tags the cousing she is talking about in it. Then she responds that if you have something to say come to me and yada yada yada. And then my cousin, the bride's BROTHER, starts cursing up a storm and telling ALL of my cousin (the bridesmaids) business. It was stream after stream of rachetness! I finally had to remind my lovely cousins that we are NOT the crips and the bloods and they need to ALL take a breather from Facebook and get the hell over it! I gave them a virtual warning shot! Suprisingly, after I posted that, they deleted their messages and got their asses off of FaceBook! emoticon (Sargeant Nikki laying the SMACKDOWN!)

In other news, I have put a kabosh on any more guest list adds for my wedding. Derrell and I initially said we would invite 250 people. Then we said, let's bring that down to 200. Somehow along the way, we now have 285 people on our guest list! If we include the vendors who will be sitting through dinner, we are at 294 people! Now I know they say only about 70% will show. But if that is the case, we will be at 200 people. I was hoping to invite 200 and have 150 show. My brother said: you know this is Omaha. This is like the Black Kate and William for some folks- everybody trying to get in! emoticon My brother is crazy.

Well that is all the drama I have for today folks. My parting words: keep your business off of Facebook!

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
SPARKLE1908 2/2/2013 9:56PM

    Sorry to hear about your family....Facebook is the new reality show!!!

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NOMOEXCUSES13 2/1/2013 1:01PM

    girl! I know how that is! Sometimes it takes one Mature person to help everyone else realize how immature they are being! SMH...facebook beefing is taking over. I"m an author and I am often amazed at how many of my fellow authors beef with each other on facebook. It's insane!

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STELLASMYBEBE 2/1/2013 11:12AM

    I hear ya! I don't watch soap operas for a reason.. I got Facebook. LOL!

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LILSHINE 2/1/2013 9:42AM

    Smack-em down ... Social Media can get nasty!! Wow glad Sargeant Nikki stepped up and they had the common sense to remove the graffitti.

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REGILIEH 2/1/2013 1:15AM

    I love it! The black Kate! You are certainly as beautiful if not more beautiful! I want to be at the wedding too and I'm not even from Omaha or Phoenix! emoticon


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SONYALATRECE 1/31/2013 9:06PM

    Keep laying the virtual smackdown!
emoticon Sargeant Nikki

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BRENNA84 1/31/2013 4:47PM

  wow! exactly why I don't post EVERYTHING on facebook lol. hope fam drama gets better

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NASFKAB 1/31/2013 2:34PM

  hate it when people write about all details of their lives

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KNH771 1/31/2013 2:20PM

    You always make me smile! I hate it when people put their business on Facebook. It's like having a brawl at half court.

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IAPHOTOGIRL75 1/31/2013 12:55PM

    Facebook always seems to bring out the drama in people! I see it all the time! Good for you on telling them what they need to do!! You go girl!

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ALICIALYNNE 1/31/2013 8:20AM

    Glad they didn't turn around on you for telling them to stop.
I made that mistake last year - I friended someone from high school that I honestly don't remember. She started having a fight with her husband about finances on their status updates. ALL I SAID was a reminder that it was posting on everyone's feeds, so they might want to take it off of Facebook. She totally turned on me, writing up tons of statuses about how "people" need to stay out of her business, and eventually saying that I only pretended to be sad when a dear friend died in high school (again, I don't even remember this horrible woman!). She took an innocent "hey guys, might want to do this in private" into "you didn't care when he died!".
Facebook is crazy, man.

WOW, that wedding is going to be huge! Thank goodness you got the perfect dress already!

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EVER-HOPEFUL 1/31/2013 5:39AM

    why is your brother crazy you are a princess.donīt you know all girls are princesses.when you marry your prince charming you will be the queen of his hearts.boy am i glad i am not on facebook lol.goodness knows what my family will be posting on ittake care and keep smiling emoticon

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MERRY_XMAS 1/31/2013 3:24AM

    I really don't like Facebook and I don't even have an account. But well done for telling them to stop!
I always say that I'm gonna have 5 relatives and 150 friends invited to my wedding but we will see until then!

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LISAN0415 1/31/2013 2:52AM

    Sorry to hear aboutthe family drama, but glad you were able to quiet it, maybe they will realize how ridiculous it is tofight in Facebook. If we could all just speak directly about our feelings, things in this world would be so much better, and easier.

anyways, good luck with that guest list, wow! It will be a great time though I am sure!


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SUGAR0814 1/30/2013 10:22PM

    Ever family has the "drama". I just try not to be apart of it! 285 people on a guest list?? Now you know EVERYBODY is going to show up! LOL

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MISSB8604 1/30/2013 5:31PM

    Hilarious. Sounds like my family. Good grief.

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