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What would I Tell my 16 Year Old Self

Monday, January 28, 2013

When I was 16 I was a skinny farm girl, the youngest of 5 kids and the only one left at home. I was boy crazy, thinking every guy I saw was cute. I also had low self esteem. So I would start by telling myself that I need to focus on myself. I am a beautiful intelligent young lady who has the world at her door steps. I would encourage my self to look into college. (The reason I didn't then was I thought we couldn't afford it.) I would say keep up the hard work because it does build character. I would tell my self that I do not need a man to make me feel complete. If I don't first love myself, no one else will and the right guy will come along when its right for me. I will tell myself enjoy being thin, but don't get lazy or think I can get away with eating just anything for long. The most important thing I think I could tell myself is to stay true to myself. If I have any doubts about doing something, then I shouldn't do it.

Looking back at my life since being 16, I know I have made some mistakes. I have also made some choices that in the end have made me a better person. I am happy with my life and don't think I should change anything, because that might mess with the way I am now.

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LIGHTONMYFEET7 1/28/2013 8:03PM


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TEXANMOM81275 1/28/2013 2:32PM

    Wonderful blog!

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_BACK2BASICS_ 1/28/2013 1:19PM

    emoticon job on your blog and beautiful insights you shared at such a young age. You are a strong and beautiful woman. emoticon

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GRACIEC 1/28/2013 12:39PM

    Val I made mistakes too but like you, I wouldn't change a thing - it lead to my life today and I'm happy! Nice blog!

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FITMAY 1/28/2013 12:01PM

    Nice blog!

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