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Sunday, January 27, 2013

I read this article on my FB page. It brought tears to my eyes.


As she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told the children an untruth. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same. However, that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.

Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he did not play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. In addition, Teddy could be unpleasant.

It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.

At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.

Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners... he is a joy to be around.."

His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle."

His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."

Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and he sometimes sleeps in class."

By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper That he got from a grocery bag Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one-quarter full of perfume.. But she stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist. Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to." After the children left, she cried for at least an hour.

On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children the same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets.."

A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling* her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.

Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in life.

Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he had ever had in his whole life.

Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer.... The letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, MD.

The story does not end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy said he had met this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit at the wedding in the place that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom.

Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. Moreover, she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together.

They hugged each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for* believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference."

Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met you."

(For you that don't know, Teddy Stoddard is the Dr. at Iowa Methodist Hospital in Des Moines that has the Stoddard Cancer Wing.)

Warm someone's heart today. . . pass this along. I love this story so very much, I cry every time I read it. Just try to make a difference in someone's life today? tomorrow? Just "do it".

Random acts of kindness, I think they call it?

"Believe in Angels, then return the favor."
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Member Comments About This Blog Post:
DIANER2014 1/29/2013 7:41AM

    Beautiful story! Thanks for sharing! emoticon

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SHERYLDS 1/28/2013 6:58PM

    So many people need someone to believe in them
so that THEY can believe in themselves.
great story...thanks

I believe in YOU......thanks for believing in me emoticon

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BAMAJAM 1/28/2013 11:17AM

  Such a very heartwarming story! I can remember kind hearted teachers, and one very special one who gave me a priceless gift of her love. Her name was Sister Dorothy...
Pass along kindness because it matters greatly, and it is often times an unforgettable gift to cherish.
(I have tears too -- thank you)

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SAASHA17 1/28/2013 7:50AM

    i read this before btu thanks for sharing again..always tears me up..

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LAHUDSONCHEF 1/27/2013 11:23PM

    Instead of "random acts of kindness", a friend calls them, "purposed acts of love".

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COLLEENROSTE 1/27/2013 9:27PM

    we all hae a "Teddy" who is yours? be a bessing and encouragement to someone every day

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GINNABOOTS 1/27/2013 8:04PM

    One of the most beautiful stories I have read. Thank you so much for sharing. It made me cry.

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JENAE954 1/27/2013 5:16PM

  With tears in my eyes I say, thank you!
Thank you...

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68ANNE 1/27/2013 3:50PM

    Beautiful story!

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HOLLYM48 1/27/2013 3:45PM

    It is indeed a tear jerker as I sit here with tears running down my face. Good lesson to NEVER judge a book by its cover but to open it and really look to see what is written there. Thanks so much for sharing this beautiful story. I love it.
Holly

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TOMWAMP 1/27/2013 2:15PM

    I read this before and it still brings tears to my eyes. How we be a inspiration to others, How can we show compassion? Something to think about. Thank You for the riminder

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WALLAHALLA 1/27/2013 2:13PM

    I have always loved this story, and yes, I get teary eyed every time I read it.

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DAWNDMOORE40 1/27/2013 2:10PM

    emoticon for sharing that incredible story with us! It brought tears to my eyes! I see so many teachers that will see a trouble child and push that child asside, but then there are other teachers that will believe in that child and stand by them, and I think that is the greatest gift a teacher can give most of all! My child always had good grades, but he has always been difficult with his behavior at home. His teachers always said he was a good student and they liked him! I started to believe that more in my heart at home with his behavior. I started to want to get him help and believe in him. Today he still has issues, but not near as many and I love my child! The greatest gift of all is that I believed in him enough to want to see him do better. Just like his teacher! God bless when we open our ears to hear and our eyes to see the truth! Amen! emoticon emoticon

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JACKIE542 1/27/2013 2:09PM

    Very beautiful story emoticon

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TINA5318 1/27/2013 2:08PM

    emoticon Thank you for sharing!! It is amazing what an act of kindness can do!

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