Negative people / positive people
Thursday, January 24, 2013
Who are you surrounded by? Are they people who are happy and helpful or are they the leeches who care only of themselves? Are they supportive or are they always putting you down, no matter what you're trying to do?
Your surroundings will be the success or downfall of your goals. If you are surrounded by positive people, you will want to keep going, but if you're surrounded by people who have nothing good to say, you're more likely to think that you can't do it.
It won't matter how positive you are about your goals, if you're surrounded by people telling you that you can't do it, then eventually you'll start to believe them. On the contrary, if you are unsure of your goals, but someone is in your corner telling you that you are able to do it and they'll keep cheering you on, you're going to make your goals because you'll start to believe them.
Who would you like to be surrounded by? Start looking at the people in your life and surround yourself with the positive people and start getting rid of the negative ones. This is one of the biggest problems when trying to reach any goal, keep the positive but stop talking to the negative ones. It's not worth your energy to let it be sucked away by the negative people. Let the positive people give you the energy to keep going.
Make your surroundings work for you by keeping as many positive people around you. You have supporters, they should be your closest allies.