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I am so angry!

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

I turned to icecream tonight following a difficult day. With all the snow we are getting this year and our snow removal guy is doing a bad job. I put an end to his contract today and now have to hope to find someone who can do the job properly.

But just realized that maybe I should have come surf here before having that icecream. So I will try that next time. emoticon

I can get threw difficult times because I have sparkpeople!

But that guy makes me sooooooooooooooooooo angry, he was so arrogant!
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    You can eat ice cream in moderation, you can eat it just to get the taste of it and often times its enough, what you can't do is make the jackwagon any better of a person or employee or worker by eating ice cream. Only YOU can give someone else the power to control what choices you make. He's still a jackwagon and you feel bad about eating your anger only to make you more angry. Too many times I wouldn't get support from a family member for weight loss when I was younger so I took on the idea that I would show her, I would make her feel bad she told me I couldn't do this and I would show her and by showing her I would eat...alot. I didn't show her anything - I showed myself that she was right because I let her be right. Have your angry moments, be a hater of the jackwagons of the world but then take control of you. Of the things you've accomplished, of the lives you've changed and of the person who can do this. Taste the ice cream as a positive thing - kick the anger away running stairs or kicking a boxing bag as an anger thing. You can have both :)
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    1754 days ago
    I did find the only other snow removal service in my area.

    I live in a small village! So if it does not work with this guy I just don't have a choice but to accept lousy service! This new guy told me that he too only passes once during a snowstorm which is the problem I was having with the first guy!

    1760 days ago

    Comment edited on: 1/24/2013 4:18:51 PM
  • OTEN36
    Did you find a new snowplow person?
    I have to tell you a story that happened to me last week.
    Well first off I really wanted a good number on the scale. I wanted to be out of the 170's so I really hit the exercising and walked 30 that week. On Sunday the scale said I had not lost one single pound. I was not happy.
    I managed through that morning but they decided to order Pizza hut pizza's at work that afternoon. I can so close to caving...I had actually put it down in my food log to see where my points would end up. I was just so mad and kept telling myself...what does it matter....I exercise and don't loss weight..might as well eat and not lose weight.
    Add to this my coworkers are at the point of thinking I've lost enough and not being as helpful but telling me I have to live once in a while...ect.... but then I went to the sparkpeople board..you know the one you go to for instant help. Well all's I did was read thru some other peoples postings and that go me out of my mental mess I was in. I turned down the pizza with a thank you and went and had my salad. I finally told myself how many miles will I have to walk to take this off...
    I hope your day is good.
    It's -33 degree's here in Minnesota.
    1760 days ago
    sorry for the stress....yep we turn to food sometimes for that...we all do it...but now get back on track and leave it behind you.
    Make it a terrific day!
    1761 days ago
    Always good to have a plan in place - and that's what you learned from this. They say every experience is a good experience, so even though it wasn't the best reaction to your feelings, you are using this so you'll be prepared next time!
    1761 days ago
    To me those things becomes double angers, first the things that makes me angry, then angry with myself for eating on it...
    1761 days ago
    1761 days ago
    That's what I do when I'm mad now, is come to Sparkpeople. Any emotional trigger sends me here for comfort.
    1761 days ago
  • 68ANNE
    I had one like that and kept calling to get him to fix at his expense so they eventually fired him
    1761 days ago
    Thanks for your replies, Your advice is so good! emoticon emoticon

    1761 days ago
    emoticon This can actually end up being A Positive Experience. Sure you ate Ice Cream BUT you recognized the Trigger, Acknowledged It, and Identified a Plan to handle a Similar Situation Differently in the Future.
    emoticon Sounds like a Good Spark Day to me!
    1761 days ago
  • CHUM48
    I totally get how you feel! Don't give anyone such power over you! You are better than that!!!
    1761 days ago
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