Sunday, January 20, 2013
Today my brother and sister in law came over to see mom and brought the girls with them. And we went to see mom in the rehab facility and took her some cheeseburgers.
While mom loved seeing them and the girls and I was happy for mom, I got the feeling that my brother hates me here lately.
The reason I say this is because the last two times he has been over here besides when he and my sister in law came by themselves to clean, he has critizied every little thing I do.
I know I don't have a clean home as they do, but at least give me credit for some intelligence, OK?.
At least I do know how to clean, just because I don't do it often enough, don't come back at me and say I am an idiot.
I think his time in the marines, while brief, being that he went AWOL and met his future now ex wife changed him, and I don't mean for the better.
Also my neices are 7 and 13 years old and while there mother does not use this langauge and I love her for it, every other word out of his mouth has been either a derogatory comment about african americans or mexicans or has had the F word with it.
More so today than any other time. I mean that is NOT something I need my neices hearing from their father.
So how should I handle this?. I know he is older than I am as he is 38 and I am 32, but, really, act like you have some intelligence, brother, OK.