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On My Way

Saturday, January 19, 2013

I am at the airport as I type this.
I am on my way to visit my parents. It is a bittersweet trip.
It may be the last time I see them both alive.
My siblings who have visited recently state they have aged 10 years in the past 6 months.
My Mother's kidneys are failing and she has decided she does not want dialysis. She sleeps 15 - 20 hours a day due to the uremic poisoning.
My Dad fell a couple of months ago and sustained a fracture. He has not recovered well.
They have had a good life and celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary last month.
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  • v NEEDLESOFGOLD
    Thoughts and prayers are with you!
    1284 days ago
  • v TWEETYKC00
    It is hard to see your parents age and be sick and know there is nothing you can do to help. I hope you have a good trip.
    1285 days ago
  • v LINDA!
    Oh, I am sorry. I have lost both of my parents and it certainly is painful. Patricia, it sounds like they had a wonderful life together. That is something to be celebrated.
    1285 days ago
  • v MYRTLE811
    Dear Patricia These are the hardest days we have to endure; saying goodbye to our parents. When I knew my parents time had come, I remember making the most of the days I had with them; getting them and me to laugh again and remember all the good times we had together.
    I hope this journey for you helps you to be in the moment with them, bring back loving memories and give you time to say good-bye. Remember to take care of yourself as well.
    1285 days ago
  • v ONEKIDSMOM
    Hug 'em tight, and make memories... and cherish memories you already have of stronger days. And let God guide you, every step of the way.
    1285 days ago
  • v EDWARDS1411
    How wonderful to have parents who have been together for 65 years - amazing! Yes, very bittersweet visit indeed. Safe travelling!!!
    1286 days ago
  • v SUECHRIS50
    I am feeling your pain!I've lost both my parents and you dont get a do-over.Hug and kiss them as much as you can and Enjoy them... emoticon SUSAN
    1286 days ago
  • v SPARKCHANTAL
    you lucky lady. sounds like you've had an excellent relationship with them. that's worth a lot! and they can't take that away from you.
    1286 days ago
  • v BLUENOSE63
    They and you will be in my prayers. God speed! Say exactly what you need to say while you are there....leave nothing unsaid.
    1286 days ago
  • v BRASKIN
    Ejoy the time you have with them.
    1286 days ago
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