Wednesday, January 09, 2013
The question today is Has any one ever made negative comments about your weight?
Hmmm is there a word limit on this blog .. "fatty fatty two by four cant get through the kitchen door" oh you have to love my little brother's rhyming ability at an early age. Then there was Earl Campbell yes I know he is a retired football player ... that was the first nickname besides Tink that I ever remember having . I can still remember watching the game the first time I realized who he was. I was watching with my dad and there he was a massive african american running back. I started to cry and my dad said why are you crying I said that is what the kids call me outside. He said well Angel your fat and unless you loose weight then you should grow thicker skin because people are going to make fun of you . He said it isnt right but it is life so suck it up .
Defining moments that put one hell of a chip on my shoulder. I became so inner closed off to these types of things . Until I got older then I realized that I could demand respect and command it once I got it. I am a force to be reckoned with and most will tell you that I am very intimidating. I am also one of the nicest people you will ever meet once you rip through all my walls. but pack a lunch because it will take you a while to get through the walls that the ones before put there. Dad was right it is life and I can laugh it with the best over weight but there is a limit to my madness ... I deal with Negativity as it comes and try to remember that the things they are making fun of or being negative about I am changing but their rudeness and ignorance well if they havent fixed it by now in their life they probably wont .. Besides I dont do stupid well and dont argue with unarmed people. There is no way to list all the negative that has been said to me in my life I can tell you doesnt happen as much now ... If there was ever one thing I would want to tell an obese child that is hang in there because one day it really does get better might not be all at once but it does happen ...