I went to visit my mom in NY this vacation. I love her to bits and I love how determined she is. She loves her children and would do almost anything for them. I do, however, realize that she loves her independence. We saw some changes in gait and posture, and she wasn't eating well. This made me look at myself and how well I adapt to change. I already know I don't like change. but it is good for you. I want to do things daily that promotes me dealing with change a little easier.