Good, Bad, Ugly, and Some Wisdom from Dolly Parton
Saturday, January 05, 2013
I should be asleep now, but I'm too worked up. It was a "the good, the bad, and the ugly" kind of day.
1. After going to bed early last night, I slept 9 hours and still got up at 5. I got caught up on some emails and colored my hair.
2. My hair color turned out perfectly. With my new haircut, I am really happy with my hair. You will not read this very often from me.
3. I found a fantastic sheath dress - a very expensive one - that not only looks good on me, but was also half price plus an additional 20% off!
4. It took a hell of a lot of doing, but I found the perfect blazer to go with said dress
5. My car is fixed and I can pick it up tomorrow!
1. I hate malls. I spent today in two of them
2. I only have one outfit and a blouse to show for it
3. The skirt I bought is actually too small in retrospect and will have to go back
4. Punim was alone most of the day
1. I ate in the most disgusting way possible today. I didn't track and I estimate I went over by about 2000 calories.
2. The size 12 pants I bought back in November are too tight
3. I didn't work out at all, except for walking.
4. I seem to have given up on the cardio. I think I figured it out though. Because I know that my new schedule will make it difficult to work out, I just sort of quit doing it. Now there is nothing wrong with relying on the speed walking, but I have time NOW and ought to be using it wisely!
5. No word from the lady doctor on all the tests. This means another week of not having the help I need to escape the hormonal roller coaster.
6. I'll have to go shopping again this weekend.
I gave myself a free pass today to eat all the crap in the world. But I'm revoking that pass this instant. There has got to be a better way. The anxiety is here, and people telling me NOT to be anxious aren't helping. Honestly, I don't know what will.
Change is tough, but right now, I'm pretty much about to change everything.
First car in 17 years
Being the "new kid" for the first time in 11 years
All the new people, responsibilities, and fear of failure
Fear of office BS
Less time with my dog
Less time to work out. Seriously, how am I supposed to do an hour of cardio every day when I have to get up at 5 just to leave for work on time? I'll get home at around 6, maybe a bit later. I'll need to spend time with the dog (speed walking) but then work out, eat dinner and then bed? Is that all possible in four hours?
I'm having a ton of "free floating anxiety" right now, so I'll stop here. I could go on and on. I need to focus on this new opportunity and all the good it will bring. I'll work it out somehow. But until then, things will be pretty tense around here.
The answer is NOT FOOD. It's the problem, if I let it be.
One last thing. After I wrote my blog this morning (ok, yesterday morning now,) I had the song 9 to 5 by Dolly Parton in my head for hours. Not the part about "it's all takin' and no givin'" but the part where she sings, "It's enough to drive you crazy if you let it." So all of this change doesn't have to drive me crazy, because I can take control and not let it. I'm not quite sure how this works. Perhaps it is time to practice that meditation I spent learning this past summer.
Any tips would be greatly appreciated!