Friday, December 28, 2012
We have had a "marking" problem with one of our cats, who had a kidney problem. So she has been in the garage while I tried to deodorize and put down waterproof pads. Sometimes she is scarce, and I haven't seen her since before Christmas - which is not unusual - sometimes she gets behind a box and snoozes and I can't find her when I go into the garage.
What happened was that she died, and my husband did not tell me or my daughter because he did not want us to be upset. I do see that his intent was good. However - and this is a long story with too much detail for this blog entry - it was very upsetting for him to choose not to tell me important news. I was very upset and very demoralized. I was and am so sad about my kitty...and shocked that she died although I knew she had a serious condition...and feel terrible that she was in the garage if she only had a short time left...but...I stayed on my program, exercised, and stayed on my food plan. And, I will continue to try to work this long standing issue out with DH, AND take care of myself and stay on my program.