Stand Up for...You!
Thursday, December 27, 2012
I have this uber-smart person in my life,Jan that sees me and it's downhill from there.Hey,what has happened to you?!!!she shouts,did you quit?Im so disappointed in you!She dont have kids,a dog or anything to do.I avoid her at all costs.She has'nt said one nice word to me in 5 years.She's the wife of my husbands boss.I have went so far as to hide in the ladies room.Not because I fear her but,because I cant stand her!She is slender and perfect like a doll.To hear her tell it she has never gained an ounce.She is Miss Perfect.She came to the annual Christmas party in a red satin form fitting dress flirting with all the men and batting her fake lashes.FAKE sums it all up,everything about her even her personality.I've tried to get past it but she cornered me at the party and proceeded to say every mean,rude ugly thing she could to me about my weight AGAIN!My DH saw me across the room and said my horns were coming out.My mama always said that letting a bully beat someone and you did nothing,you were just as bad.I grabbed myself a plate of food,a bottle of water and made sure to sit where she she couldnt be near me.I already had a headache from passing up a meal and was getting sick.Of course she popped up behind Lila talking loudly and had her in tears.Someone said why dont you shut-up and sit down and act human?Im tired of this crap!I realized it was me!!Oh my gosh I had spoken out loud my thoughts!But,I just felt so beaten and upset by her rudeness that I spoke up!She had everyone in the room pissed off by then and ready to ambush her.She laughed it off and walked away with an Im better than you,my husband makes more money than yours attitude.Im an easy going person and I apologized to her but,she will leave me alone from now on.Im losing weight slowly and healthfully and I dont explain it to everyone I meet!