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Reflection And Planning Ahead for 2013 :)


Sunday, December 23, 2012


THIS is my New Year's project! Starting January 1st, every awesome thing that makes me go "WooHoo" will be written down and placed into the jar, so.. NEXT New Years Eve, I can read through all of them and know each amazing thing that happened and what I have to be proud of, etc.... that's my only resolution.. to keep up with that jar! lol



This year was a complete success in so many ways, I can't complain! I lost 50 pounds this year (hitting my 100 pounds lost mark! *happy dance* Awww yeahhhhhh), had two Cancer scares (that turned out to be JUST scares! Phew.. Thank You GOD!), crossed many things off of my Life (Bucket) List, and learned so much about my new healthy lifestyle.. #WINNING! I decided to become a writer in September and by October I had something published (short stories), November published my first novel, and am currently in the process of writing for my next two projects, with a few others planned, so.. YAY!



I discovered more of my weaknesses and decided to attack them and make them into strengths. That is a process, but I am on my way! YAY again! I think every day should be a learning experience and give us something to grow from and drive us to want to achieve more and BE better.. and, well, I have found my stride in that right and I refuse to stop now! WooHoo! *another happy dance in progress*


(One of my favorite and SO fitting quotes!)

I challenged my Wicked Sassy Ninjas (Done Girl challengers) to plan ahead for the coming year. NOT to make "resolutions" because I think those are just lame and most people give up on those within the first few months, but to make a plan. Write things down NOW that you want to achieve within the next year so that you (and I) can plan ahead for my next year in all facets of life: health, family, career, sanity, etc. (Yes, I said sanity.. its part of health! lol).



Nearing the end of this year, as I was changing career goals and finding my interests moving into a different direction, I let myself slack in a few aspects of my journey. However, I still weighed and measured all of my food (even if I didn't track, I was consciously still caring what I did). I decided to stop tracking and see how I would do for a bit and it turns out that I DO still need to track (up a few pounds in the last 3 months), but it was an awesome test for myself and I'm proud that I can completely stop "writing it all down" and still be mostly on track. That was awesome to find out about myself! I am truly learning from this journey and it's "sticking" with me! Heck yeah! The good news is: I REFUSE to give up. I will never stop having this lifestyle. I will ALWAYS want to give myself better, do better for my son and my loved ones, and will try and experiment with and test out new things so that I can find out what works best for ME. No two beings are created equally and well.. I love that!



Just because I changed my methods for a bit doesn't mean I gave up. On the contrary! I think it's important to step back and reassess things from time to time. And.. I rock, so.. yeah. :D See how modest I am? LOL I think we should all be confident in our healthy journey to say "Yeah, I dont have to do what X or Y do because I know what works for me!" and if you dont know what works, best to try NOW and all the time. We are ever-growing and changing. As a great friend once said to me "Even Cancer evolves..." so let's learn, grow, and change all the time and keep our eyes on the prize. (FYI: The "prize" = the longest, greatest, most healthy and amazing, action-packed, fun-filled, love-fest of a life you can possibly have. I will not give up ever, because I am worth ALL of THAT!).



I get asked that one a LOT. "What did you DO?" I hate to say "Well, one day I just decided that my body became important to me and I no longer wanted to just lay on the couch in a chemical-induced coma of laziness where I cared for nothing or no-one, even myself." But that's truly what I did. I had enough, so I changed it. You can, too. Right now. No matter how far you have come or NOT, you can decide right now to put down the holiday cookie, fat-filled drink, or whatever else is holding you back and DO something. You can. I promise, it will be okay. You will feel better and you will thank yourself for it later. Don't thank me, thank YOU for loving yourself enough to want and need it! :D Plus, it sounds massively strange, but sweating and healthy eating feels amazing. Truly. It's addicting after a while!


True story!! :)

2012 for me has had some amazing highs and a few less-than-desirable lows, but.. the balance and end-results are what matter most to me. I have made some amazing friends and found some people that I simply cannot live without (you know who you are!!). I have also discovered that some people are simply NOT who I thought they were or they lived out their purpose in my life and, even if it hurt to let them go, I had to do what was best for me and my journey and life. I think it made me a stronger woman, to be honest. I possess more strength than I ever knew I had... what a beautiful lesson!



So for me.. 2013 will be RIDICULOUSLY huge. My plans are.. amazing and more than I can share here and now, but the most major ones are reaching my goal and finding healthy experiences whenever possible. I am going to keep on with trying new things and not being afraid to step outside of the box (nothing wrong with following my own path. I am the master of myself.. aka "you're not the boss of me, cookies!" haha! I will not settle for what is handed to me anymore and will fight for my happiness in every way that I can. I will accept help from those that offer it (if/when I need it) and not be too proud to admit when I am failing or need support. I know I can't do this alone, but I also know that I am strong and powerful enough to fight for myself whenever necessary. So... bring is on, world! I'm ready for you!


I hold the INK that forms my story.. and I will not stop re-creating, editing, and drafting my life until it is all that I want it to be... which will be... never! There will always be room to grow! YAY!!


These are my other plans for 2013! I want to embrace life and worry less for the "fluff" that fills most of our days. I want to focus on my writing and my love and my happiness. That is what is most important, yes? :D


YES! SO MUCH YES! Anything that makes you feel like a rockstar, makes your heart beat a little faster, makes you have to catch your breath.. is worth it. 100%. I have a LOT of those things in my life and I dedicate my journey to them.

The most MAJOR thing I am DONE with?... Wanna know? Excuses. I won't have those ever again. If I slip, I just slip. I have no reason to explain myself. I am human. That will happen, but...

I will do my very best. Give MYSELF my all as often as I can and be proud of that.

Do me a favor, would ya??

Don't wait until January 1, 2013 to start being proud of yourself, changing your life, or doing things to improve your health. Don't be that person. Don't use the next few days of this year to eat yourself into oblivion, gaining 10 more pounds, lazing around, and feeling sorry for yourself. Get up and DO something. Be proud of yourself NOW. You will thank yourself for it later.. I promise you that!!


I have proclaimed it....... SO MOTE IT BE!~ hehehehe


And now, a few piccies of me from the last two months ~


My son and I at Thanksgiving.. yes, we are all shiny from SWEAT because instead of laying on the couch watching football, we had a TWO hour Just Dance 4 party. "We had a "Gangnam Style" Thanksgiving," is what my son says.. haha


My son snapped a pic of me and I liked it.. o.O Who knew? :)


My bestie screen-grabbed me off of a video I made for her.. and the outcome was cute, so.. its my default on Facebook now. LOL!

And me...

with my 100 Pounds Lost tiara on! Princess for a day.. or whenever I need/want to feel awesome. One of my supporters sent me that and I just cried.. so much love from so many people will do that to a girl ;)



So... what are YOUR plans for 2013? Get to thinking.. its only a few days away! WooHoo!! XOXOXO



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Member Comments About This Blog Post:
APLUSGURL 1/4/2013 1:00AM

    Sis, as always you inspire me in so many ways! You are a Superhero and I know that this year will just as awesome or better than last! You are so Awesome! I'm in it with you! We will reach our goals this year!!!! emoticon







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IYA_EKUNDAYO 12/31/2012 12:44AM

    You inspire me! Loved your blog.
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CRZYMOM04 12/28/2012 5:57PM

    I love this blog, I love the jar idea that is so brilliant to do. Happy new Year and congrats on the weight loss.
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PHOENIX1217 12/28/2012 1:02PM

    Wow...this actually brought tears to my eyes. Your ARE A ROCK STAR in my book! I'm going to add some of you pics to my inspiration wall! Not to mention some of your words. Having been heavy pretty much all my life, I am SOOO determined this change is for LIFE!

I too have a son (8) and I want him to know he will not grow up to be fat like his mom but be healthy and strong.

THANK YOU SOO MUCH for your words and for giving me new determination to make this coming year one of the BEST EVER!!

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MISBJEAN 12/28/2012 11:37AM

    Having confidence in your strengths, and your goals is awesome! And it isn't easy, it's not something we come built with... We achieve our confidence over time as we take care of ourselves and our lives. Congrats on rising above yourself to make your life a beautiful and healthy one. Be proud and flaunt it girl!

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THEBEACHSLAP 12/28/2012 8:49AM

    I think I might steal your jar idea. You seem like a truly awesome person. I loved the read today.

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LISAN0415 12/28/2012 2:43AM

    GREAT IDEA!

Thanks for sharing!

Lisa

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MIDLIFEWOLFGIRL 12/28/2012 2:07AM

    Happy New Year to you and your handsome son! Your post is inspiring and your warmth and energy just what I needed on this cold winter night. Thank you!

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May 2013 bring you more joy, health and abundance.

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ABB698 12/28/2012 12:23AM

    Can't wait to rock 2013 with you love! Xoxo

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ALICIALYNNE 12/27/2012 2:20PM

    GREAT blog! Keep on kickin' booty, DONE girl!

Oh, and that awesome card made me lol pretty hard. I want to make some of those up now.

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CHANGINGMORGAN 12/26/2012 1:06PM

    YOU GO GIRL!!! Totally awesome as usual. Rockstar in the house!

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TRIANGLE-WOMAN 12/26/2012 6:11AM

    Fabulous blog as usual!

2013 will be the best year yet! Let's make it happen!

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INGBADEN 12/24/2012 9:49PM

    2013 will be an awesome year

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MELLYBEANS0919 12/24/2012 3:59PM

    Fantastic!!

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NATURALLYME126 12/24/2012 3:48PM

    I am once again.... PROUD OF YOU CC!!! You are AMAZING my love!! Thank you for helping me this year. Thank you for being one of my dearest friends for the past..... (thinking...) 6 or so years. Love you momma!!

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OLIVIANIGHT 12/24/2012 5:20AM

    Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeah I love your blogs! They always make me want to go do 50 pushups because I AM WOMAN! Or something....
Anyways I took your advice and went for my run today, even though my nose is streaming with a cold. It was messy but I still ran for all 28 minutes emoticon


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    I love your energy. You rock! Let's be friends! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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SARAHJ19 12/24/2012 12:12AM

    Love this blog Christy! You are amazing! Way to go on hitting 100 pounds gone! Woot Woot! 2013 is going to be amazing! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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RHIANNONTHEWOLF 12/23/2012 10:59PM

    Awesome girly!

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INGBADEN 12/23/2012 9:30PM

    Thats my girl


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