It has been a while. Alot more has transpired since I last posted. Dec. 6th Desiree texted me to tell me things got "heated" with her and my husband mid August, and that I am not stupid I new all along. She also said she left her husband and son before anything happened. How am I supposed to take those text messages? Matt said I took them the wromg way that nothing is going on with her and nothing will, except they are living together. Yes seperate rooms in a trailor, he left the house he bought last year for a trailor! I filed for custody after those text messages, the date is our daughter's birthday January 14th at 11 am. I saw the public defender and they will put in it that he cannot take the kids around her because she sold drugs, and did drugs. I don't know if she still does. He is mad about the last part! Oh well. If her "friendship" is more important then his family then he can have her, but not both at the same time! He will learn eventually that he made the biggest mistake of his life and it may just be too late.