Sunday, December 09, 2012

I just dont know what to do...I am so confused right now...My best friend, who was at one time my fiance, is having feelings for me again...we broke up several years ago and have been just friends since...for a while I wanted to get back together with him and was hurt when he didnt. He said he just wanted to stay friends...I have recently decided that it was best to keep our relationship as it is and even been looking for a new relationship, I think I found someone new and am persuing a real relationship with him...but I can not ignore my friends feelings and his attemts to get back together...I just cant handle getting back together in that way again...he is to much of a mamas boy and his mom controls him too much, It just wouldnt work and I cant wait around forever...besides I have someone else interested in me...I just dont know what to do, I just want to leave everything the way it is with him...he is my best friend and has been there for me when no one else was...I dont want to hurt him, when we talked today he seemed so upset when I told him it wouldnt work...we get along better as just friends...I had a panic attack earlier and feel like crying when I think of how hurt I was when the relationship ended and when he turned me down for another shot at the relationship...I am so confused right now..I chose not to get together with him tomorrow because I felt so uncomfortable with him right now and I need time to think...sigh

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  • _FALINE_
    I am no relationship expert but I do have to believe God has someone in mind just for you. Whether it is this guy who has been your best friend all these years or whether it is this new guy you are dating or whether it is neither one but someone completely different I don't know but do keep your mind and heart open for God's guidance. His guidance leads to clarity, not confusion.

    Lord, I pray you would help butterflyangel to gain clarity in what Your will is for her regarding these men, and that You would guide her to make the right and correct decisions and with a certainty that only You can provide and to remove the confusion in her mind and heart and to give her guidance on her path in Jesus name I pray, Amen.
    1897 days ago
    You need to keep your distance with him. Mama's boys don't change. I know I married one and then divorced him and he always ran to his mama. I also think that he wants to get back with you only because he sees that you found someone else. He just wants to control you so just keep it on the friend level and that is all. Go for the other guy.
    1898 days ago
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