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Yesterday Was A, Strange Day For, Me As I, Felt Like I, Was Being Watched, By My Ex, Boyfriend James

Friday, December 07, 2012

Yesterday was a, strange day for, me as i, felt like i, was being watched, by my Ex, Boyfriend James Needham. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

Why you may, say what happened, to make me, write down this, particular Blog all, about my Ex, Boyfriend James Needham. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

Well i shall, explain all about, it in great, detail it started, when i 1st, came into Town, to get my, usual Jobs done, etc etc etc. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

1) I came into, Town at 10.55am, (on the, 10.50am Alma Park, Bus which try, to get everyday).

2) 11.00am I saw, my Ex Boyfriend, James Needham he, was doing his, Old Job (, Working Shopping Trolleys).

3) 11.40am I saw, him again just, as i was, going into, a card Shop, for some (, Christmas Cards &, Helen's 40th Birthday, Birthday Cards).

4) 15.00pm (3.00pm) I, saw him again, (I had just, finished being online), & was about, start my Shopping, in other words, i had a, go at him, (i was, angry & mad,) when i, said to him, have you got, a problem with, me as you, keep giving me, Dirty Looks (,looking at me strangely, ) he said, no as i, thought that he, was being awkward, with me.

5) 15.30pm (3.30pm) I, saw him again, just as i, was getting myself, some TV Magazines, Weekly Treat Magazines, for myself (, cos i can, read them myself, at my Leisure, without being disturbed, by TV Radio, Mobile Phones etc, etc etc etc, i said to, him are you, having Fun?, he smiled at, me & said, yes as always, (our Private, Joke etc).

6) 16.20pm (4.20pm) I, saw him again, just as i, was waiting Patiently, at the Checkouts, (Tills) to pay, for my Shopping, (Groceries etc, etc etc).

7) 16.55pm (4.55pm) I, saw him again, just as i, was about to, get the Bus, Home he stopped, & spoke to, me i apologised, for having a, go at him, i explained that, i was stressed, out (i, was having a, *BAD DAY*), TBC TBC TBC TBC

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
FRIDA11 12/9/2012 7:15PM

    I find it unclear whether it is you or him that are going after each other. Anyway when you put both his first and second name on internet plus the store he works in you give him reason to be mad at you. I advise you to make your blog more anonymous emoticon
Anyway be polite or just walk on the other side of the street in discretion when you see him again.

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KAYLSLYNN 12/8/2012 1:14PM


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ANIHAKA 12/8/2012 11:46AM

    Info is too specific on this blog. (Too much info). Do yourself a favour and don't allow your ex to continue affecting your life. Shop whereever you want.
Enjoy your week.

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LYNNWILK2 12/8/2012 11:40AM

    Okay, question ... do you two work, shop, live in the same area? that may be the reason you keep running into him. But it is odd if he was working that you two would be running into each other as often at that.
Just watch you back. Be careful and the next time you see him, just wave nicely, tip your head as if to say hello, and keep doing what you need to do. You don't want to invite danger, or encourage him in anyway that he he can "get to you" (get under your skin)... Good luck, and keep moving.

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FITGRANDMA145 12/8/2012 7:02AM

    If you're wanting to do a running journal, spark has a seperate section for that and I think it's a great feature.

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GARDENSFORLIFE 12/7/2012 11:46PM

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GLC2009 12/7/2012 10:24PM

    hmm, you said he works there, so, i don't really get it. aren't you stalking him if you go to the place he works?
i also want you to think about why you are putting his whole name up here? isn't a first name enough? this is the internet, not a group of your friends having lunch together. i know people who conduct their whole lives on facebook. and i think it is a bad practice. i think it is a concern that you have every bit of your personal information on your sparkpage. please go in and edit yourself. no one here needs your street address.
of course, i don't know the story of your relationship. i am only reading a page of your life story. take care of yourself and work on moving on. which to me doesn't mean get out there and find a new boyfriend. it means take care of you. do things you would like to do that may make you grow as a person. pamper you. love you. when the next man comes along, you will have lots of love for yourself and you will only hook up with a guy who brings out the best in you and makes you an even better person. and you will be able to do the same for him.
it's better to be alone and sane than to be part of a crazy couple.

Comment edited on: 12/7/2012 10:29:13 PM

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CAPECODBABE 12/7/2012 6:46PM


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ALEXSGIRL1 12/7/2012 6:17PM

    be careful

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GRNDMOM43 12/7/2012 5:24PM

    It sounds like you parted on good terms. Be careful but keep going forward with your life. emoticon

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PRAIRIECROCUS 12/7/2012 5:05PM

    Take good care !

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1STATEOFDENIAL 12/7/2012 4:04PM

    Human perception is skewed through knowledge. For someone who understands that birds fly south for the winter seeing the flocks is normal whereas someone who doesn't understand it can't figure out why so many birds are going the same way and think there's something the birds know that s/he doesn't. It's similar to when you see the same person over and over. When you know someone you recognize them when they're nearby so you realize when you've seen them multiple times. It's probably that at the same time someone you don't know was near you even more often but because you don't know them you didn't realize it. Life is full of coincidences but we only notice them when they directly affect us... like you've spent so much of your time and energy on your ex that you can't get him out of your head, so you associate seeing him with a 'sign' or that he must be following you. It is doubtful that it's anything but coincidence.

Actually, when a person takes coincidence as signs of someone following them, out to get them, or as a conspiracy, it is a sign of mental health issues. Until someone makes nefarious intentions specifically known (spoken, written, or shown through direct physical action) you can't assume anything. Perhaps the best bet is to speak with a professional. In the meantime, if you see your ex, IGNORE HIM. Pretend he isn't there and doesn't exist. If he's in one asile go to another one. If you see him in a parking lot turn and go another way. Stay away from him! This continual interaction with him is only going to hurt you more and more. It will not and can not be positive.

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CARRAND 12/7/2012 3:59PM


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NESARIAN 12/7/2012 3:11PM


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ANGRITTER 12/7/2012 2:27PM

    Melanie! DO NOT let that tosser get to you! Move on and shake that beautiful booty as you walk away from him. Tell him you only want to see his back... walking away.

And then grab one of your hot guy friends and make him go with you to shop and hold hands the whole time and gigle and be cute so he knows you have moved on. DO NOT LET HIM GET UNDER YOUR SKIN... and do not fall back in love with him.

Remember what a turd he is!? Keep that image in your mind!

STAY STRONG, and don't make me cross the Pond to get you straight! HAHA

Have a great weekend. You are loved by your SparkFriends and we don't want to see you go down that slippery road with him again.

Hugs and Love, Angela

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JTREMBATH 12/7/2012 2:22PM

    Be careful emoticon

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USMAWIFE 12/7/2012 1:37PM

    I so agree with Beth10. Did you ever consider that he is on here or has a friend who is reading your blogs and therefore he is doing everything he can to annoy you. Especially after you posted the blog a while ago about him seeing you a few weeks ago.

Just be careful. TMI is NOT a good thing.

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3016DEBRA 12/7/2012 1:08PM

  I have to agree with BETH150...BE CAREFUL! emoticon

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NIGHTSKYSTAR 12/7/2012 12:17PM

    if he isnt being threatening, IGNORE HIM. if he is, please tell someone.

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BETH150 12/7/2012 12:02PM

    At the risk of being told to mind my own business ;) I want to say that if I were you I would not post this much personal info about your life on a open forum/blog like this. You give full names, work jobs, bus routes, stores etc.

Just seems like too much specific info for anyone to be posting online :)

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PRINCESSAMY 12/7/2012 11:56AM

    Stalker... I would pick someone where else to shop! That is just weird.

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WALLAHALLA 12/7/2012 11:44AM

    I'd look for a new place to shop, or different hours to do it in.

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CSAGIRL 12/7/2012 9:59AM

    Is it possible to find another place to shop, where you won't run into him so much?

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CINDYSDAY 12/7/2012 9:35AM

    be careful!

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DR1939 12/7/2012 9:31AM

    Be careful.

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PYNETREE 12/7/2012 9:17AM

    Since you shop where he works, isn't this an ordinary occurance? Or do you usually NOT run into him?
Seems a wee bit creepy, with him unexpectedly popping up all day...

Maybe you should inquire which days he is off...and shop then. emoticon

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BARDT01 12/7/2012 9:12AM

    Not good.

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USMAWIFE 12/7/2012 8:57AM

    can you get a restraining order attempting to make him stay away

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PROVERBS31JULIA 12/7/2012 8:12AM

    Is your your ex-boyfriend James Needham "deaf"? What part of "No" does he not get?


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