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Growing old..... from Susan Brown's

Thursday, December 06, 2012

Old Age, I decided, is a gift.
I am now, probably for the first time in my life, the person I have always wanted to be. Oh, not my body! I sometime despair over my body, the wrinkles, the baggy eyes, and the sagging butt. And often I am taken aback by that old person that lives in my mirror (who looks like my mother/father!), but I donít agonize over those things for long.

I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As Iíve aged, Iíve become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. Iíve become my own friend.

I donít chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didnít need, but looks so avante garde on my patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant.

I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.

Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM and sleep until noon?

I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60 & 70′s, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love .. I will.

I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging body, and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the pitying glances from the jet set. They, too, will get old.

I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things.

Sure, over the years my heart has been brokenÖ How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebodyís beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.

I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face. So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.

As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I donít question myself anymore. Iíve even earned the right to be wrong.

So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will beÖ And I shall eat dessert every single day.

(If I feel like it).

May our friendship never come apart especially when itís straight from the heart!

May you always have a rainbow of smiles on your face and in your heart forever and ever!

Friends Forever!

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
DIDMIS 12/10/2012 11:31AM


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CUSH1932 12/7/2012 7:25AM

    emoticon and i agree.

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MARTHA-ANN 12/7/2012 6:20AM

    Great blog, I like being 'old' too, you can do what you want and get away with it! emoticon

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GRAMMYEAC 12/7/2012 5:53AM

    This is a wonderful tribute to getting older, becoming more positive, and having a healthy outlook on life!

Thank you for sharing!

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JILL313 12/6/2012 11:57PM

    Love this blog and it's is absolutely 100% true for me also. I'm also going to make the best years of my life the remaining ones I have left. Thank you for sharing this.

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DIDMIS 12/6/2012 5:48PM

    Lol I typed a comment and spell checked it but didn't post it. Well I can do it as I am 83.
I won't tint my gray hair I got from my mom pink, or green, or any other color, unless I want to.
You would be surprised how I spent my lunch 3 hours today talking and to who and about what.
I am the oldest of 7 siblings and the only ones left are one brother 3 years younger than I. All of the younger ones went first.
Thanks for that beautiful post.

Comment edited on: 12/6/2012 5:49:49 PM

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STITCH4EVER 12/6/2012 4:08PM


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CATLADY52 12/6/2012 2:38PM

    Thanks for the blog. I have found a sense of security with aging that I never had when younger.

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SANDRALEET 12/6/2012 1:05PM

    So true to bad it takes so long to find that out.

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SCOTTYDOG76 12/6/2012 11:55AM

    Hooray for old age! I'm definitely there!

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MS.ELENI 12/6/2012 11:27AM

    emoticon emoticon

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CYNDI4856 12/6/2012 11:20AM

  this made my day thank you

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MOMMY445 12/6/2012 11:12AM

    what a wonderful blog! have a fabulous day! you can do this! you are worth it!

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