Wow, two invites today.... went to a church ladies evening, was it ever nice... the men served us and then there was a little skit and some Christian Christmas songs and readings.. wonderful...

Told Mother I will be leaving any time after Dec. 17. Dh will take a bus here and we will pack and drive there together.... Havent' worked out arrangements of apt. and furniture yet. Will have to start and pass the word around and see what happens... Little response from Mother.... very strange. She's been talking to my bro whose been telling her what I've been sort of thinking, and my sis has been telling me Mother can manage herself, and would have been by now if I hadn't stayed for almost 3 mths. Is that appreciation? Guess I better not hold my breath waiting for that. Different perspectives for sure...