Saturday, December 01, 2012
Ok, so a pet peeve of mine is before and after pics. I mean, I love 'em - they represent possibility, hard work, determination, the knowledge that people CAN succeed so I can probably succeed too.
So many many before pics (at least of the ladies) involve a sports bra and a pair of too tight shorts. The subject stands there with their hands limply at their sides or rigidly held out to the left and right like they are being martyred on the cross of obesity. They don't smile, they have their hair tightly pulled back, no makeup on. Then they turn sideways for another shot. It all smacks of "full-body mug shot." And then there is the after picture, usually an action shot, out laughing and playing with friends. Or a strategically placed camera with a figure flattering pose. If it's another mug shot, then this time it's a smiley one, with the hair done and the makeup on. It's worse when it's a commercial company before and after because the white chicks usually get a spray on tan and hair color too.
Why can't we be happy where we are today and still try to move forward? I mean, losing weight doesn't make a grim and unhappy life immediately wonderful and sun shiny. Sure there are things that will be better without the extra weight, but dieting isn't going to cure depression or discontent. You have to make deeper changes.
This is all probably me projecting my issues onto something else out there. I know that I have to watch out for negative language and negative thoughts. I can't beat myself up into losing weight and getting fit; I have to love every part of that journey instead of punishing myself till I get to a specific end point. So this time, that's the attitude I'm taking. And that means not using words in ways that hurt me, and I think it will also need to mean not using images that hurt me either.
So anyway, I love the idea of taking pretty before shots. Finding a location and a pose and an outfit that I can recreate along my weightloss journey. Today, I'm thinking about how I can do that and I hope to have my first in a series of good photos up soon.
(And haha, I tricked you! There are no actual pictures in a post that is titled "Before and After Pics")