Can't Help Lovin' That Man o' Mine
Friday, November 30, 2012
This school year is a bit harder than the last. Not that my assignment is harder. They just changed the hours - I have to be there at 7 instead of last term's 8. The hour doesn't bother me. I'm a morning person. I get up at 5 so I can do my workout and shower and have my time with the Lord before I go to work. So why is it harder?
Levi, my new love, lives in Pucallpa, Peru. Jungle. They have seasons: hot, very hot, rainy and very hot, and very rainy and very hot. With an occasional dip in the temps. The house is simple. There is no air conditioning. It gets a little cooler - comfortable - in the wee hours of the morning. Levi is a hard worker, putting in a lot of hours. When he comes home he likes to relax with a bit of tv - a movie, maybe, or some sport. It's hard to fall asleep in the heat, plus he has aches and pains. He has to be at work at 8 in the morning, and he tries to get as much sleep as possible before the sun fires things up.
Last term I would call him at 7 or 7:30 - it would be 6 or 6:30 am HIS time when we were on Daylight Savings Time. We'd spend time reading scriptures and praying, and talking about our days or other things. But this term, I wasn't able to call him at 7 - I had to be at work. And I couldn't call him at 6 - it would be 5 there, and he needed his sleep. Even when we changed back - calling him at 6 is just too early for him any more in the heat. So I try to call when I get home from work, when he'll be home for lunch - but it's hotter inside the house under the corrugated steel roof which soaks up that sun and makes it like an oven. They don't have a cordless phone. And he prefers to relax on the hammock in the shade out front, where he can maybe catch a little breeze. So I try calling at night when he's home from work, around 8:30 or 9. Of course, during Daylight Savings Time, that would be 9;30 or 10 for ME - and I'd have been up since 5! And sometimes he doesn't go directly home.He might stop at his sister marita, or his niece Erika who's a nurse and can give him an "ampolla", some kind of treatment to alleviate his pains. Or to watch sports and visit with his nephews. So this term I'm simply not getting to spend as much time on the phone with him.
So, last night I called him around 9, and we actually had a nice long talk, almost an hour (although I still haven't consumed anywhere NEAR the thousand minutes of my phone plan like I did LAST term) It was delightful - he was in a talkative mood, and besides work and health, we talked about missions and church and God's will and different forms of ministry..."spiritual" stuff...and it just reminded me why I love the man so much!