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Sad News on Aithley's behalf

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Not sure if i am doing this correctly. But i think it is how Aithley explained it to me. I am her brother Adrian she said she mentioned me a few times so you would know somewhat about me. I never thought i would have to actually write a note on her page, My parents got a phone call from a hospital in Cape Town.

Not sure if she mentioned about going to Johannesburg with her roommate. I forget her name. For the weekend, The girls were beaten and lets not get into details. But their bodies were sent back to Cape town, Aithley and her friend were in coma. They were in life supports, They were doing some tests on the girls to see if it was worthwhile to keep them on life support, Aithley condition she was brain dead and showed no life, so they took her off the machine, and my poor baby sister gone just like that. The room mate still has a chance she showed some life, so there is still some hope for her. Aithley body is planned to be shipped to England tomorrow evening.

She was telling me how great it was working in South Africa, alot better than other places, she has worked, She told me about how she fancied David. I never knew someone like her, she was one of those people that was a light in my meaning, she never had any enemies, there were those who judged her on the outside, but she didn't care she made easily friends, and i see even the time she has been on this site, she has made a ton of friends too. That was my sister, she had a big heart, and now she is taken away from me, She was so happy to be a bridesmaid at my wedding, now she gets no chance, no chance of actual love, or to build a family of her own. My kids would never know how special their aunt was, this news has come to us such a shock, we just don't know how to deal with it, tomorrow when viewing her i believe it will hit us really hard.

Aithley Anne Riley C.
29th September 1987 - 27th November 2012
Aged 25
Survived by her parents , brother (and sister in law), and friends.
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KOMAL53 11/28/2012 7:55PM

    I'm so very sorry to read this Blog--unfortunately I never knew Aithley and never interacted with her---but I can understand the Pain and Grief you and your parents must be going through.Losing a family member is never easy and one so young and in such a manner--is extremely distressing.Sending you all my Prayers and hope that The Almighty grants you the courage and fortitude to weather this terrible news and period in your lives.Take Care and God Bless----May Aithley's soul Rest in Peace!! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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SHERRIJ61 11/28/2012 7:50PM

    I'm so sorry for your family's loss. So sad to hear such a senseless crime. My prayers are with you and your family..

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BE-THE-CHANGE 11/28/2012 7:46PM

    I am so sorry for your loss.

Sending prayers for your family...

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SAL1512 11/28/2012 7:41PM

    What a tragedy! So senseless a loss for all of us! So sorry for your family's loss.
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FITSMALLCLOTHES 11/28/2012 7:17PM

    I am very sorry for your loss.
Loving thoughts and prayers to you and your family.


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HDHAWK 11/28/2012 7:06PM

    I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your sister. I can tell by what you've written how much you and your family loved her. Bless you all.

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NESSAGIRL67 11/28/2012 7:00PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers for you and and your family.

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CHANGINGSEASONS 11/28/2012 7:00PM

    This is horrible. I unfortunately didn't know her here on spark..i'm sure we would have crossed paths at some point...but she was taken way to young. What a tragedy. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family and to the other girl who was beaten. This is all so very sad. Hugs.

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ALEXSGIRL1 11/28/2012 6:56PM

    so very sorry for your loss prayers and love to your family

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SIEGRID 11/28/2012 6:55PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and all your family. May you find peace and love in her memories. Such a tragedy!!!

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KEEPITSIMPLE_ 11/28/2012 6:49PM

    I'm so sorry for you loss. My prayers are with you, your family and her roommate. I hope you can find comfort in the good in her. I didn't know her personally, but it sure sounds like she is very special.

Peace and comfort to your family.

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DIET_FRIEND 11/28/2012 6:27PM

    Unbelievable that such a violent end came to such a sweet person. My prayers and condlences are with you and your family.

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TIME4AFITME 11/28/2012 6:15PM

    So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. emoticon

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JESSYVIRGINY 11/28/2012 6:07PM

    My condolences emoticon emoticon emoticon

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RAYCOMAR 11/28/2012 6:04PM

    Sorry to hear this. I wish peace to your family.

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CEILIE2 11/28/2012 6:03PM

    I am so sorry for you loss.You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
My heart aches for you all.
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KRISTEN_SAYS 11/28/2012 6:03PM

    How tragic. My thoughts are with you and your family. Stay strong.

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LUVSBULLDOGS 11/28/2012 5:47PM

    So sorry for you loss. What a tragic event. We will remember her, Adrian, thanks for letting us know.

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SARALEE11 11/28/2012 5:45PM

    This breaks my heart!! Aithley was SUCH an encouragement to SO many - even Spark Guy himself noticed, and thanked her himself. I am so so sorry for the loss of your dear sister and our friend.
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CREATINGCHRIS 11/28/2012 5:42PM

    so so sorry for your loss... your family is in my thoughts and prayers

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48MYYEAR2014 11/28/2012 5:39PM

    so sorry for your loss emoticon

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JUST_BREATHE08 11/28/2012 5:35PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. I am so sad to hear this!! emoticon emoticon

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PUDLECRAZY 11/28/2012 5:21PM

    Adrian, I am so sad to hear of such a tragic loss for your family. This is beyond horrific. I know your suffering is deep. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Love and prayers to you and your family.

~ Chris

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FP4HLOSER 11/28/2012 5:13PM

    So sorry for your loss! Hold onto the memories of your sister! Praying for you and the families!

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LJR4HEALTH 11/28/2012 4:39PM

    So sorry for your loss

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GMO_JEN 11/28/2012 4:13PM

    I am so sorry for you and your family's loss-my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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D-ABBY 11/28/2012 4:07PM

    I am so, so very sorry, and saddened by this news. You and your family and friends are in my prayers. BLESSings, Darlene

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LEXIE63 11/28/2012 3:58PM

    My thoughs and prayers are with your family, and with your sister's friend.
So awful, what happened. I am truly sorry.
Hugs,
Lex xxx

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DETECTORIST 11/28/2012 3:53PM

    I am so sorry to hear the sad news. Such a tragedy. You and your family are in my prayers. I hope Aithley's roommate pulls through. emoticon

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AHAPPYLIFE 11/28/2012 3:53PM

    Saying prayers for Aithley & her loved ones. She will be missed.

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WORKOUTWITHPAM 11/28/2012 3:48PM

    Please accept my deepest and heartfelt sympathy over the loss of your dear sister. I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.

HUGS
Pam

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SHANTODD420 11/28/2012 3:37PM

    Sorry for such a loss and my thoughts and prayers are wth you and your family.

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REMEMBER2BME 11/28/2012 3:34PM

    I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayers are with you.

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-POLEDANCEGIRL- 11/28/2012 3:02PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. I am in shock! Sending prayers to your family

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GAYEMC 11/28/2012 2:51PM

    My heart goes out to you and the family! Such a tradgey.

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4_MY_LIFE 11/28/2012 2:50PM

    I'm so sorry about your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!

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MOMIN09 11/28/2012 2:42PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. She will be missed!
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MARGOMANIAC 11/28/2012 2:33PM

    Adrian, Mom, Dad and Sister-in-law:
I am very sad and shocked to hear that Aithley has died and that the circumstances were horrible.
I am the leader of the Wave Runners and Aithley was a new addition to the team in October and a considerable asset for us. She fit in well and made friends with all of us and encouraged and cheered on the others. I and all the Wave Runners will miss her greatly.
Again, I wish to convey my condolences to you and your family and friends on the loss of your sister, daughter and friend.
May God grant her eternal peace.
Sincerely,
Margo
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ALYSSADANNIELE 11/28/2012 2:30PM

    I am so sorry you had to write something so tragic, on behalf of your beautiful sister. Your family is in my prayers and thoughts. Rest in peace, babygirl.

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LADYANDREA2012 11/28/2012 2:23PM

    Adrian, this is just so, so sad. I am so sorry for your lost. I will be praying for you and for your family and, please, as Don said, I hope you can stop by, from time to time, to let us know how is it going and to celebrate her life.

(((((((HUGS))))))))>Carmen

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JFROGSPYDER 11/28/2012 2:19PM

    I can't believe this!!!! Such a cruel act on someone so special!!!! Know that your sister had many friends here & will be sorely missed!!!!
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SPARKLINGHOPE 11/28/2012 2:12PM

    My thoughts and prayers are for her and all of her family. So tragic and I am so sorry for your loss.

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RADIANT888 11/28/2012 1:46PM

    I've just read this shocking news. So sad at the loss of such a beautiful young girl with so much to live for - and broken hearted for you that the end should have some in such a way. She will live on in the hearts of many people. God bless.

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KTISFOCUSED 11/28/2012 1:24PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. What an absolute tragedy. Please accept my deepest sympathy.

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LAINIESNEWLIFE 11/28/2012 1:05PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. Praying for the family. Keep those wonderful memories of Aithley in heart. Take care!

Hugs,

Lainie

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AMBER281 11/28/2012 12:58PM

    So sorry for your loss
HUGS

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JENNCABA 11/28/2012 12:56PM

    So sorry for your loss....My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family emoticon emoticon

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KATHYJO56 11/28/2012 12:45PM

    I am so sorry to hear about this. My heart and prayers go out to Aithley and her family. It was such a wonderful thing that you have done for her by letting us know.

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-COURT- 11/28/2012 12:40PM

    I'm so sorry to hear. Aithley was on a couple of my teams. My prayers are also with you.

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MS_HEATHER121 11/28/2012 12:34PM

    I'm so sorry to hear this. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers

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