Friday, November 16, 2012
I think of my husband and it brings a smile to my face, he's the best thing (besides our son) that has ever happened to me.
When we met I was a size 6/7 a nice healthy size, he was always after me (holding down skirts so they wouldn't blow up in the wind), holding doors open for me, opening the car door, never started eating until I was at the table with him to eat, always thinking of me and looking for craft shows that I'd enjoy, scraping the car for me in the winter, lots of hugs , kisses and sharing of desserts when we'd go out (yes we're that sickening couple that you'd watch feed one another a bite of dessert and kiss afterwards) like it was just us in the restaurant or cafe.
Together now for 18 1/2 yrs later no more size 6/7 , but still treated as if I still was he's never changed anything, never been embarrassed to say this is my wife (even at my heaviest), still holding hands, kisses, hugs out in public, opening doors, still looking for craft shows for me and yes he'll still share a dessert with me and look in my eyes like he did that size 6/7 girl all those years ago.
I was always worried that I'd never find a man that would love me for me and as the years go on we just keep getting stronger and stronger together. He's seen me at my best and my worst and never made me feel like he was embarrassed walking down a street, in a crowd or to show me off.
He has put up with so much crap from my family all out of love for me and I know he doesn't always want to do some of the things cause he knows how I've been treated, but he does it out of pure love for his wife.
This man is who I was born to be with and I honestly feel he was made just for me! He took his vows seriously because god knows we've seen a lot of sickness / health issues, no riches more poorer and I honestly believe we'll be together till death do us part...
He's been so supportive of me doing this , going on spark to make sure I track my food , I'm really a lucky woman... I found one of those rare gems!
I really found that man that married me cause he truly loves me and for that I'm so grateful to god!