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Wednesday, November 07, 2012

As some of you know, my elderly mother fell in early October. She broke her shoulder in 4 places, her hip in 3 places and split her femur lengthwise.

She had an awesome surgeon who put Mom back together again in such a manner that he avoided cutting muscles, saved her rotator cuff and managed not to have to replace any joints. She will have full range of motion in her shoulder and her hip.

She was in the hospital for some time, then she went to rehab. In Rehab, Mom learned how to dress herself, how to walk with a 4 legged cane as well as other tasks those of us with everything working well take for granted.

Now she's here with my family. Our daughter gave her room to her grandmother with such a generous spirit it made me quite proud. She even packed up a lot of her things to make room for Mom's things and helped me rearrange furniture so that my mother could get around in there.

Our son checks on my mother every night (cuz I'm worn out by 8 or 9...LOL) to see if she needs an ice pack or anything else.

I'm so proud of my kids and their generosities - things that seem so small mean so much. Especially to my mom.

It's really weird to be in the position of helping my mother bathe and dress and stuff like that. I don't have to DO a lot - lay out the clothing, put the bench in the shower and get towels, etc. But for now, I need to be present to make sure she doesn't fall again and/or catch her if she does...

My sister has taken this opportunity to have Mom's house worked on to make it more accommodating when Mom goes home.

It's not easy. But so far, things are working out OK.

Mom has gotten quite a few really hilarious Get Well cards.

The inside says "Don't worry, you have 8-1/2 lives left!"

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    Your family is absolutely wonderful. So glad your mother is healing and that the you and the kids are there for her.


    1933 days ago
  • MARY1313
    Wow you kids are AWESOME! They love their Gram. that is great. I know it's a big adjustment but you and your kids will always always be glad that you did. You are a wonderful daughter too kiddo!!!

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    1934 days ago
    That is so wonderful that the kids are so willing to help their grandmother. That's heartwarming.

    I am happy that she's recuperating . It is a long, slow process. It's so good you can help her.

    HUGS and prayers for continued recuperation without problems.

    1935 days ago
  • DEBBY4576
    What a joy your children are. They are showing the inner selves with their treatment of Grandma. You have done a great job with them. Your care of your mom shows your inner self too. How old is your mom? My mom has fallen several times, but never like that. Minor injuries. She does live with us. Has for 10 years. She's 91 next week.
    1935 days ago
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    1935 days ago
    HA! Love the card! So appropriate! :)

    Glad that the whole family is helping out with your mom and even better that she's on the mend!

    Many hugs!!!
    1935 days ago
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