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Sad Ending

Tuesday, November 06, 2012

Well after years of fertility issues with my ex husband, I somehow was able to get pregnant with my husband of almost 2 years. We were very excited. Last Tuesday we went for a dating ultrasound and found out that our baby had stopped developing a couple weeks earlier and had no heartbeat. So on Wednesday, I had a D&C procedure to have the baby removed. This has been truly devastating. The hardest part was telling my son and my parents. I hate disappointing those I love. Its getting a little easier each day to cope. Once I'm fully recovered physically, I hope to get in the best shape of my life. We don't want to get pregnant again due to our ages and because we can't go through this heartbreak again. We are taking it one day at a time.
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    LAC936 - I have a son I adopted from guatemala.
    1444 days ago
    New to this, but my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family!
    1444 days ago
  • KARENE10
    I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers emoticon
    1445 days ago
    I am so sorry for your terrible loss. I hope that things get better for your family as time passes. I am saying a prayer for your family. Take good care of yourself. Hugs, Michelle

    1446 days ago
    Sending prayers to relieve your heartbreak. All my best wishes to you! emoticon
    1446 days ago
  • LAC936
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Have you ever thought of adopting as there are so many that would love to be wanted?
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    1446 days ago
    I am so sorry to hear this. I knwo your pain all too well. My ex-husband and I got pregnant three times. Our first two sons, passed away in-utero. Our daughter was born 12 weeks premature, was hospitalized for 11 and a half months, came home for 9 months and then passed away due to a nurse's medication administration error. It is such a painful feeling. I lost Alicia two and a half years ago and I didn't think I would ever get to this point. It get's better with time. With that being said, every so often, the wind may blow a certain way, you may hear a song or see a commercial that reminds you of your loss and it is real all over again. But the pain subsudes and you are able to live. Good luck to you and your husband. Your strength through this dificult time is encouraging someone and you don't even realize it. emoticon
    1446 days ago
  • 4GREEN4
    Sorry for your loss.
    1446 days ago
    You are in our prayers.....God bless you both!
    1446 days ago
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