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One day at a time.....

Sunday, November 04, 2012

I am taking one say at a time. Some days are more of a struggle then others, but I will survive. It would be easier if I cold stop loving him, but I cant turn it off that easy, unlike him! We had a huge fight on Tuesday because I called him Monday to come stay with us because I was scared with the storm, and worried about my parents who were on a cruise ih the storm. He told me to "grow a set, it is only wind, go to sleep. So that gave me the answers I needed to move forward with what I need to do. He got mad that I said I was going to file for custody of our kids, and child support. I had to get food stamps to make sure we had enoug food, he had waited three weeks to shopping. I also want to file for a legal seperation. He thinks I will just sit here while he does whatever he wants. He moved in with some one in Ravena, a town North of us. He told me Tuesday that he wasnt coming back, but said yesterday "when I come back, I cant tell what the future will bring". He is playing games and it has to stop!

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KAILYNSTAR 11/6/2012 2:47PM

    Good for you for finally standing on your own and getting things done. Don't wait for him to tell you what to do. Things need to be done. No more indecision.

You can be strong.

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EATVEGAN 11/6/2012 12:22AM

    I don't want to be crude, but it sounds to me like you are "growing a set" and won't he be surprised. emoticon

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ALIHIKES 11/4/2012 8:14PM

    I think you are right to take charge and file to end things. His behavior is very disrespectful. You need to care for yourself and for your child. emoticon

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