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Monday, October 22, 2012

So, as you may have seen last week, I was a nervous wreck thinking about going to spend the weekend with my parents (blog from 10/17/12). By the way, for all the positive, uplifting, and encouraging words, thank you from the bottom of my heart! emoticon

So, this morning, I will gladly state that this was a really wonderful and healing weekend for me with my parents. For the first time, in a very long time, there was no negative talk from my mom and very very few negative comments by my dad. Progress!!! My mom never pays me any compliments, but this weekend, I was delighted to hear positive things coming from her. She EVEN said, she thinks that I have a pretty face. emoticon I was a little shocked, I will admit! I admitted to her that I have been having some self image issues too. Rather than her usual response of, "just get over it and move on" she actually said things to me like, "there is no reason that you should let anyone make you feel bad," or "be confident and proud of who you are." My mom has not been this way at all for a long time!

My dad was even very positive towards me. He was a good listener and wanted to know how things were going in our lives. When I commented on our new healthy lifestyle, instead of saying what I expected, "Could have fooled me by lookin at you," he would acknowledge how great it was that we were making these changes. He made just a couple of comments that were a little out of line, but nothing compared to the way he once spoke to me. There were no comments made about my image, how I ate, anything! For the first time in a very long time, I felt as though my parents treated me as though they accept me for who I am. They have even opened their hearts more to the idea of my husband and I wanting kids. This is a whole different story, but they have always been very opposed to the idea of me procreating for some reason. I don't know what is happening to them, but I won't question it. I will rejoice in the positive changes! emoticon

As for me, I tried to make healthy choices throughout the weekend. No, it wasn't my usual broccoli, or salad or cottage cheese, but didn't do bad overall. Also, got a bit of a new makeover. I chopped my hair off into my usual norm of the short pixie cut. I have had it grown out for three years now, and I decided that I could simplify my life by chopping it! I feel so much better already!!! All in all, the weekend was excellent! Thanks again so much for your kind and loving words!!! emoticon

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
SWAZY33 10/25/2012 1:13PM

    I'm sooo happy to hear that your weekend went well!

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CHANGINGSAM 10/23/2012 10:10AM

    Yay! I'm so happy that you had a good weekend with your parents!

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DATMAMA4 10/22/2012 10:34PM

    Obviously your parents could not ignore the changes you and your husband have made, and their lack of criticism shows that they're proud of you and happy with those changes.

You know you're doing the right thing -- but it's always nice to know our parents recognize it, too.

I'm SO glad it all went well for you! What a blessing to all of you!

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_LINDA 10/22/2012 7:51PM

    So very glad your time with your parents wasn't the nightmare you were expecting!
Now that is strange about the kids, most parents are impatient waiting for the grandchildren to arrive!! But then, the way they treated you in the past, maybe they aren't comfortable being parents???
I bet you look awesome in the new hair cut -profile update please :)
I hope you have a fabulous week!

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KBRADFORD88 10/22/2012 4:39PM

    Pictures of the hair cut please! We got to see. Glad it went well. I have seen getting older make a huge difference in my relationship with my family. Not sure if it is them or just me not letting them bother me. Probably both emoticon

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