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Look in the mirror. No, really look!

Sunday, October 07, 2012

emoticon There are times we may look in the mirror and be disappointed with ourselves. As we stare at the image reflecting before us, our enthusiasm drains and turns into shame, disgust, hate, or maybe even disbelief. emoticon

We don't know who that person is! Who is she? Where did she (or he) come from?

It is interesting that some of us believe we don't know who is reflecting in our eyes.

Why is it that we allow what we look like physically, impact us emotionally and spiritually?

Don't get the wrong idea. Of course you aren't going to be enthusiastic about being overweight or not as fit as you would like to be. There is going to be frustration and probably even some tears but should we allow our physical appearance to impact us to the point where we don't even know who we are anymore?

It is possible to be happy with who you are and what you stand for and be unsatisfied with your body. Your weight doesn't change who you are. It may change the way you look at certain situations and it may make you shy away from things you would dive right into before, but you are still the same beautiful person you were before! emoticon

Something we must do is learn to love ourselves at any size. As I said before, it doesn't mean you have to be happy with your size. Learning to love yourself and who you are is the best medicine for healing our plight. The kinder and more accepting we are towards ourselves, the better we treat ourselves. The better we treat ourselves, the better choices we make to care for ourselves.

When your physical appearance changes as you reach your goals, who you are doesn't necessarily change. You are still you, but a healthier version of you.

Next time you look in the mirror, look past the physical and take a look. You just might like what you see.


Member Comments About This Blog Post:
ZACEVETOB 10/11/2012 3:48PM


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SUEPERSTARS 10/8/2012 11:05AM

    Excellent blog and message. Thanks for your inspiring reminder.

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LILAC_LANE 10/7/2012 8:05PM

    Amen! We must love ourselves at any size!
This is a great blog with a very IMPORTANT message.
Thank you for writing this,


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OKBACK2ME 10/7/2012 12:28PM

    You need to love yourself to change what you don't like about yourself. Without that self love, it is hard to make the effort. Another grrreat blog! emoticon

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CANDOSUE52 10/7/2012 8:35AM


Wonderful blog!

When I look at myself lately I see a work in progress so I am able to love myself in a few way.

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TURTLESLOW14 10/7/2012 8:19AM

    Sounds like my poem looking for our beauty within deep down. I LOVE to be reminded that the outside is not as important as the inside soul that keeps us going day in and day out. I absolutely LOVE your blog!

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NANCYPAT1 10/7/2012 7:53AM

    Great message - I started to actually LOOK in the mirror not long ago and realized how important that was to me. Nobody much likes being treated like they don't exist - even US when we are doing the ignoring.

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