Wednesday, October 03, 2012
It's been a while since I posted here because I don't know where to begin. I recently found out two days ago that my husband was having an affair with a work colleague. He has been seeing this woman since the 12th January, two days after my birthday and also two days after I had a miscarriage. He has accused me of being a failure as a woman as I am unable to have children. This has been our second miscarriage. At that time I was distraught went into depression and wanted his comfort but he was distant. I assumed at the time he was also distraught and had difficulty coming to terms with it but in fact he embarked on having an affair instead.
I found emails on his computer and photos.
There is no going back now and I have contacted a lawyer for divorce today. When confronted he blamed me for his cheated giving the excuse that I was a failure as a woman.
I just want to move forward from this sorry episode, this is not the first time and I have put with physical, mental and emotional abuse from this man.
Sorry I needed to vent as he has hurt me so much and in a way this had helped me allot. Thanks for listening