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So much has been going on ....

Sunday, September 16, 2012

I never expected to be gone for a month, yet I was. Our days are getting better.
Even though I didn't comment on Spark I did check in every once in awhile and you will never know just how much your love and support helped us get through this time of mourning. DH is doing well (so am I). This is a time when one would think the family would rally and put aside any differences, not so in this case, but we WILL move forward from here.

On a lighter friend Mary has finally left the hospital (129 days) and has temporarily moved in with her daughter (and family). What a miracle this is. For those of you who don't know the story I will give you the "cliff" notes: Mary had a brain aneurysm burst. Although she lives alone there was a workman there when it happened and called for help immediately. From there.....3 surgeries and many long hours of therapy ( more fine tuning still going on) she is walking, talking and still living her life....."Thank you God"

I have hundreds of emails to sort through and it will take some time to get to all of the mean time a big THANK YOU and HUGS to my friends and second family here on Spark. YOU are the best.

FYI: still within my (+- 5 #'s) goal weight.

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Member Comments About This Blog Post:
SHARON10002 10/1/2012 10:48PM

    Sorry to hear about your family's troubles during this difficult time. So very glad to read about your friend, Mary. God works his miracles . . . You are doing great in maintenance. emoticon

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SCHOOLCOOK2 9/24/2012 3:27PM

    Happy you are back.. Sorry about all but sure glad to hear mary is better. i am dealing with a 96 year old right now that her kids sure don't care to watch out for her. So doing what I can to help her. she ended up in the hospital this week falling, that didn't even bring the kids running. just upsets me so.

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MILLISMA 9/20/2012 4:50PM

    Hi Barb,

So glad to see you back! I was hit and miss on spark since I headed up to Maine when dad went into the hospital. I really haven't been on spark much since I returned.

As for family, sad to say, some people won't change no matter what. Good for you for moving forward.

What good news for Mary. Keeping her in my prayers.

Sending extra emoticon to you and DH.

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JUSTA123 9/20/2012 9:05AM

    So true about families, but you and your hubby will give each other the support to move on, emoticon on your friend!

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JOYCECAIN 9/19/2012 8:09PM

    I am so happy your friend has survived an incident such as this, and thank God someone was there to call for help.

On another NOTE: times like this with a death, sometimes things can really get UGLY. emoticon and emoticon .....

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    My husband can totally relate to the family not becoming closer after a death in the family. I'm sure you are a comfort yo your husband as I am to mine and that is what matters most.

I am so happy about you friend Mary! It is a true blessing.

Good job on the weight!

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BMDEP55 9/17/2012 10:04AM

    So glad to see that you are back. It is amazing how different people react to a death. I went through some similar stuff when my mom passed. Instead of working together there was a break down in family. Hope it heals quickly for you.
In the meantime, so happy for your Mary and grateful to have you back here. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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OPALMOON 9/17/2012 9:58AM

    So glad to see you back, barb. Sorry to hear of the problems you have been facing with such a difficult loss - and glad to hear the promising news regarding Mary. You have done well to stay within range of your goal weight! Sending prayers for you and your family and Mary.

Hugs and blessings, Nattacia

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KATHRYNLP 9/17/2012 8:26AM

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PEZMOM1 9/16/2012 9:52PM

    Welcome back. Congrats on maintaining.

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ESYLVANTUTOR207 9/16/2012 7:44PM

    Sending you lots of love and hugs. You were missed by me and I am so happy that you are back and that you are doing well. Great job staying within the 5 pounds of your goal weight. Looks like you haven't lost your touch. ((HUGS))
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MSLZZY 9/16/2012 7:17PM

    Sorry that the last month has been so difficult.
Hope things get better. So glad Mary is getting
better. Hugs!

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GOOZLEBEAR 9/16/2012 7:13PM

    Congrats on the weight loss! So glad to hear from you. I'm sorry your family hasn't been there for you (those involved in the conflict) but glad you have had your DH and others. We are here for you just let us know how we can help.

That is wonderful news about Mary, such an answer to prayers!!!


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RUNNERRACHEL 9/16/2012 7:09PM

    Much to sort through and you are doing an excellent job. Thankful to hear about your friend's rehabilitation. You are doing so well and the circumstances aren't easy. You're a strong woman!

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IAMAGEMLOVER 9/16/2012 6:44PM

    Barb. I kept checking your page to see if you had returned. I was very glad to see you posted a blog. Welcome back. We missed you. I am very proud of you that you maintained within +-5 of your goal. Good to hear that DH is doing good. It is tough to lose a Mom, on the both of you.

So very happy to hear about Mary. That was a miracle. I have seen a few of them since joining SP.

Welcome back, settle back in and know you were missed and are loved. emoticon emoticon

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MAKINANIMPACT 9/16/2012 6:36PM


I'm glad that things are going better! It sounds like more time is needed though. Sending you many blessings!



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KATHYJO56 9/16/2012 6:18PM

    Barb, I am so happy to see you back with us. My love hugs and prayers are with you and your loved ones. emoticon

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1CRAZYDOG 9/16/2012 6:03PM

    so glad to hear you & DH are doing alright after your loss. Very glad to hear that.

Sooooo very glad to hear your friemd Mary is now out of hospital with her Dd. Praying progress continues!

HUGS and proud you've been able to maintain within +/- 5 of your goal!

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MAUITN 9/16/2012 6:02PM

    Welcome back! You were missed.

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