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My Key to Motivation

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Tuesday, August 28, 2012

One thing is for certain with weight loss and improving your health and that’s the need for motivation. You have to find it and keep it.

When you’ve got it, everything comes easily. Eating with your calories is “a piece of cake”. Going out for that walk or jog after work? No problem.

And when you don’t? Not so much.

This isn’t new to me. I’ve always known it and I realize it isn’t exactly a secret.

What is different for me this time is that I’ve FINALLY learned the key to STAYING MOTIVATED.

In the past, when I lost my motivation to stick with “the program”, I would “fall off the wagon” and gain weight. I’d blog about needing to regain my mojo, praying that someone out there in Sparkland would turn up with some miracle motivator. When that didn’t happen, I started internally beating myself up, which literally went on for a couple of years. And, all that time, I was packing on the pounds. I was seeking external motivation and not taking responsibility for motivating myself.

Now, I’m a fairly (ok, VERY) competitive person and am highly motivated by the spirit of competition. When it comes to games, I always play to win; to me, winning is fun. BUT, when it comes to weight loss, I don’t find competition with others very motivating. It’s the competition with MYSELF that pushes my motivational button. Again, this isn’t exactly an epiphany for me.

Like yesterday, when I had such a fast bike ride. Or today, at the gym, when I jogged my first complete mile. Those things motivate me to push myself further; to see how much better I can get. I immediately start planning my next personal challenge. Next time I jog, I’m going to try for a mile and a quarter. Or, since I know I can push my average cycling speed up to 13 mph, maybe I should try for 13.5. Maybe even sign up for an endurance bike race! You get the picture.

What I realized today is that I have the key to long-term success right in my own hands. I don’t need to look outside myself to locate my misplaced mojo anymore. When I need to, I just need to dig down deep inside myself and deliver a challenge I can’t resist.

The cool thing about that is I can apply this motivational technique to ALL my personal goals! And since there will always be some way in which I can improve myself (no one’s perfect, right?), I will always carry the key to my own motivation in my heart.



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DANIELLE2013 8/31/2012 12:24AM

    Thanks for sharing!

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SCOTMAMA 8/30/2012 11:32PM

    A terrific blog! Thanks for posting it.

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REENIE131 8/30/2012 11:29PM

    Very motivating!

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ANNASGOALS 8/30/2012 11:23PM

    Said so well, thanks for reminding me who has control!

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PMFISH 8/30/2012 11:20PM

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AJB121299 8/30/2012 11:18PM

    thanks and keep motivating people

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CAROL494 8/30/2012 10:41PM

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IRISHKROE 8/30/2012 10:03PM

    Oh my goodness! I seriously (although not as eloquently) could have wrote this exact blog! What you have written has been going through my mind all week....and it wasn't an epiphany for me either...I knew it all along. Something has clicked and I know that I got this for good. Thanks so much for posting and inspiring others! Congrats on that mile...that is a mini goal I WILL reach soon :-)

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MAMA_CD 8/30/2012 8:53PM

    we are our own best motivators

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BUBBAJEAN7 8/30/2012 8:08PM

  Thank you for your inspiration. I feel that I need help all the time.. This will help me the next time I say I can't when I should be saying "yes I can".


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KTBLEYES1 8/30/2012 8:05PM

    Hi there. I Liked your blog. Very inspiring and what I need to hear today and every day. I like how you are going to motivate yourself. I am going to do that too. My challenge is serving size. I know what a serving is. I just have trouble sticking to that "tiny" amount. What I have been doing this time around that is different is to think about those servings in a new way. I imagine them larger. I take smaller bites. It really helps! It is much more of a mental attitude for me when it comes down to it. I just wanted to let you know that I enjoyed your post and will keep on reading! I am so new that I have not had my first weigh in yet. It is coming up in a couple of days. I am excited to see how much I have lost, but know that eating on plan is much more important for me at this point. If the scale has not moved down yet, so be it. I can now deal with it. It is, after all, just a number....at this point. Thank you for the inspiration. I love it! emoticon

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LIVINHEALTHY9 8/30/2012 7:50PM

    So true.

Thanks!

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STARSUB99 8/30/2012 7:03PM

    Oh I hear you..... that voice inside that says - Oh Yes I Can! gets louder with every pound I lose - with every workout I complete.....

I love your words - they are inspiring.... emoticon

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IRISHANGIE1 8/30/2012 6:53PM

    What a wonderful blog, so full of inspiration and YES, MOTIVATION!!!.....and we have to look no further than ourselves to inspire and motivate us!! Yes, I can do it, and Yes, I will do it!!!,,,,I will turn the can't into can!!

Thanks for sharing such a great blog with us!!

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TFUNKSGIRL 8/30/2012 6:33PM

    emoticon I love this, thank you

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RSPAPRIL281 8/30/2012 5:28PM

    Thank you so much you are such an inspiration.

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NEWCHINELO 8/30/2012 5:07PM

    yes,we all need to motivate ourselves somehow.

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SUNSHINE31797 8/30/2012 4:22PM

    emoticon This is a great inspiration and reminder.

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JUMPINJULIE 8/30/2012 3:12PM

    Thank you so much for the motvation reminder. keep going you will get to your goals if you just keep reaching

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CAT-TERRELL 8/30/2012 2:30PM

    I have been looking for my own motivation and that seems to never find me or me it. This helps me to keep on that wagon and push myself further. Truly inspirational. Thank you for sharing. emoticon

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SPSPSP1 8/30/2012 2:17PM

    Right on!

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NELLBELLA26 8/30/2012 2:12PM

    So true! emoticon emoticon

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NERDLETTE 8/30/2012 1:45PM

    Thanks for sharing, that was GREAT! And so true in my own life as well! emoticon

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BROWNSKIN252 8/30/2012 1:38PM

    Thanks for sharing. I've been off "the wagon" for close to 5 months. Over the past 2 weeks, I've been giving myself daily pep talks. The quote you shared is what I have been looking for to add to my wall.


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URGETTINTHIN 8/30/2012 1:23PM

    Loved it--thanks! You got it! It so simple and for some reason WE make it complex.I'm coming at it from a different perspective this time too and so far I'm in good standing with moi!

KEEP SPARKIN! emoticon

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SANDY-TOES 8/30/2012 1:04PM

    Great Blog! Thanks so much - I needed to read this today!

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TYPICALTERESA 8/30/2012 12:18PM

    Thank you for sharing! I am using that phrase at the end!

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SKATIE3 8/30/2012 11:54AM

    Thanks for the inspiration. I'm very much like you, I strive for competition! I'm running in my first ever Half Marathon Saturday and I need to remember this quote, when my mind says I can't I need to remember to push harder! emoticon

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MAMAGRACE47 8/30/2012 11:32AM

    Keep up the great work! You've challenged me to challenge me even more today

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BARTHPEPPER 8/30/2012 11:13AM

  love the quote and thank you for some much needed motivation

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JAE_HENNINGTON 8/30/2012 11:03AM

  great inspiration

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BANDMOM2012 8/30/2012 10:55AM

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BLUENOSE63 8/30/2012 10:51AM

  Who is the quote by?

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DOTTY7267 8/30/2012 10:40AM

    Love the quote!

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4TAYLOR 8/30/2012 10:29AM

    Love this!! I feel like that too!

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SAEMSINGS 8/30/2012 10:04AM

    Wonderful! emoticon

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WILEE323 8/30/2012 9:49AM

    Wow! That struck a chord!!

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JUNEBUG4967 8/30/2012 9:38AM

    This really strikes a chord with me. I am going to save it where I can refer to it as I know that I will need to look back and refresh myself. Thanks for something that will allow me to get a handle on myself.

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SKINNYMINNIE25 8/30/2012 9:35AM

    Thank you. Didn't even know I needed this today.

Skinny

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03BFISCHER 8/30/2012 9:09AM

    Thank you! I needed this. Feel of the wagon this last week. The worst I think I ever have. Struggling with getting my self back on track.

Thank you for sharing!!!

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IN102WIN 8/30/2012 8:44AM

    Thanks for this post. Really lately I've been getting that feeling. That feeling leads me to stop exercising and to begin eating everything in sight!!! Even though I've been getting results. Even though exercise is going gr8 and my clothing is fitting better... I will give up. Thanks cause I need a new challenge... I'll look for it!!! emoticon

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LMATTHEWS12111 8/30/2012 8:35AM

    Love it Thanks for sharing

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JOYFULROAD 8/30/2012 8:29AM

  LoVe the whole blog and the quote at the bottom - no match for who I really am !!! yes, that will be my mantra today - let's bring it on! Weight loss is a mental game with physical results - I am finally getting the idea !!

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LABRATIAM 8/30/2012 8:03AM

    emoticon Thanks for sharing!

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LRSILVER 8/30/2012 7:22AM

    Great Blog and so true. I am slipping in my MoJo, but it will come back in my grasp.

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THETROUT 8/30/2012 7:03AM

    You helped someone who is really having a hard time. Thanks.

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BRASKIN 8/30/2012 6:59AM

  fabulous!

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